Man commits murder after being abandoned by bisexual girlfriend. What is bisexuality?
In September last year, the man Chen met Lin through the introduction of a friend, and soon the two established a romantic relationship. During the days when they got along, Chen learned that Lin had homosexual tendencies after experiencing a relationship breakdown. During this period, the two often quarreled over some trivial matters in life. However, Chen had good hopes that the relationship between the two might get better, and had always hoped to exchange for Lin's change through his emotional dedication. But unexpectedly, Lin established a homosexual relationship with a gay woman, Yao, and wanted to end the male-female relationship with Chen.
In order to save his relationship with his bisexual girlfriend Lin, the man Chen used threats to force his female love rival Yao to leave Lin. Unexpectedly, Yao had no intention of giving in. In anger, Chen used his girlfriend to The fruit knife brought by Lin's family stabbed Yao, causing Yao's pneumothorax.
What is bisexuality?
Among human sexual orientations, those who are sexually attracted or excited to people of both genders are called bisexuals. Bisexuality does not necessarily mean attraction to both genders is equal. A bisexual person may be in relationships with both genders, be in a monogamous relationship with one gender, or have a preference for one gender. The other two sexual orientations are homosexual and heterosexual. Because homosexuality is often seen as a sign of social disrepute, bisexuality is also used as a euphemism for people who do not openly identify themselves as homosexual.
There are roughly the following types of people with bisexual tendencies:
1. Young people who have not yet determined their sexual orientation try two experiences at the same time.
2. Having sex with a person of one gender, but thinking about a person of another gender.
3. With a strong emotional relationship as the medium, there is a positive tendency to love both genders at the same time.
4. Due to personal growth experience and education, the importance of gender factors is ignored.
5. Through comparison and selection, rationally decide that bisexuality is the sexual orientation that best satisfies your emotional and sexual needs.
6. Unable to decide one's sexual orientation, always wavering between the two genders.
The relationship between bisexuality and heterosexuality
To be precise, purely from the perspective of sexual orientation, not many homosexuals have a favorable impression of bisexuality. Many people do not understand bisexuality, and simply conclude that bisexuals are a group of "sexual scoundrels" based on their appearance, and are disgusted with them. This is very unfair and irrational to the majority of bisexuals. . There is also a possibility that "homosexuals" who are averse to bisexuality, if considered in a broad sense, completely fall into the category of bisexuality.
However, homosexuals cannot avoid secularity. Some homosexuals sometimes call themselves bisexual as a way of protecting themselves. This results in some real bisexuals being considered "gays" who dare not admit that they are gay. This misunderstanding is very common in current popular culture, such as movies, TV, and even music. In the gay culture group, people are also used to saying "He is bisexual now and will become gay soon."
Possible locations for bisexuals
Temporary isolation or long-distance travel without the same-sex environment will cause heterosexually inclined people to engage in homosexual behavior within a short period of time to release sexual repression. For example, in the army, prisons, concentration camps, ocean fleets, and schools. Generally speaking, homosexual tendencies end when they leave these environments. Therefore, this kind of homosexuality can also be called situational homosexuality. Because of "pseudo" homosexuality caused by certain environmental factors, it is more appropriate to call it bisexuality.
The formation of bisexuality is related to emotional experiences in adolescence. People generally refer to the period from the ages of 12 or 13 to 18 or 19 years old as adolescence. Boys and girls in early adolescence have a mentality of avoiding and rejecting in-depth interactions with the opposite sex. People of the same sex tend to form "same-sex partner groups". If sexual activity is involved, a homosexual relationship will result. According to relevant surveys, 10% of boys and 5% of girls have had same-sex behavior at this stage. Comparatively speaking, same-sex sexual behavior is the safest (not easy to detect and often ignored), the most economical (no payment required, easy to satisfy), and the most convenient (more opportunities to contact each other and understand each other). If you remain attached to a same-sex partner, you may become homosexual or bisexual. But the vast majority of people will get out of this stage, stop games among peers, and shift their sexual orientation.