Li Ao said it best, only love a little. How to grasp the scale of love is troublesome. If it's too cold, it's like an iceberg; if it's too hot, it's like a volcano. The following 10 items are for reference only: There are some thresholds, so it’s best not to cross them!

1. Never say how much I love you.

Castro has a wise saying: A woman should never let a man know that she loves him, as this will make him arrogant.

2. Only make one phone call a day.

Hang up when the other person is still unsatisfied, and maintain a moderate sense of mystery. No man likes a nagging woman.

Three, a normal heart.

Few people fall in love only once in their lives, and nine out of ten love relationships end in breakup. We must treat reunions and partings with a normal heart. Without anyone, life would have to go on. It's easy to get together and get together, don't cry, make trouble, and hang yourself all the time. This will only make you very pitiful.

4. Accommodating too much becomes cowardice.

No one owes anyone anything, loving him is his blessing. In a relationship, both people are the protagonists. They must have their own opinions and know how to refuse appropriately.

5. Try not to get into financial entanglements.

Money is a sensitive topic, and there are many examples of men and women in love falling out as soon as real interests are involved. Feelings belong to feelings, and money belongs to money. We should still make a clear distinction, so as not to lose the wife and lose the army.

6. Don’t force marriage.

If you love someone too much, you will want to last forever. At this time, you will long for secular marriage. She keeps proposing wedding dresses and buying a house in front of her boyfriend, clearly showing her desire to get married on her face.

If the other person wants to get married, you don’t need to give him a hint to buy a ring. Otherwise, your desire will scare him away.

7. Don’t have children just because you love him.

There are many single mothers now, and they all have certain financial capabilities and psychological endurance. It would be unwise to use children to bind a man. You can't let the other person be responsible for you, but you have to be responsible for a life. Isn't this asking for trouble?

8. Don’t stay together every day.

The vitality of love is limited. To make love last longer, you must maintain an appropriate distance. If you have physical intimacy, don't act like you have to marry her. Sex is a common feeling for both parties and a sublimation of emotion.

9. The other party is always just a part.

Sanmao once said that my heart has many rooms, and Jose just came in to sit there. You must have your own social circle. Don't disappear as soon as you fall in love and cut off contact with all your friends. This will only make your life narrower and narrower.

10. Drink less vinegar and cry less.

Ask men, Xue Baochai or Lin Daiyu, which one they would choose. How can a man have the energy to explain to you one by one that this woman and that woman are just pure friendships? Don't worry too much about the other person's past. Why do you have to dig out all his old almanacs? The past cannot be a blank piece of paper, and at the same time, you should not explain everything about the past clearly, especially things like being abandoned.

Teresa Teng has a song "I Only Care About You". Don't sing this song to a man casually. Even if he is touched at first, he will gradually feel depressed and may even try to persuade you to say "I". What's good about it is not worthy of you.

Only love a little bit, like Guanyin Bodhisattva dipping willow branches in fairy water, a little bit is enough, if there is too much, it will overflow.

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