After breaking up with his lover, he still looked aloof. Is it really possible to take it up and let it go? How do the "tough guys" who are not as good as they look at deal with their pain?

Seven months ago, Su Qing and I broke up. When we ended the relationship that lasted for two years, everyone was very calm. I was once again promoted to a single aristocrat, and I was even more relaxed and content. Style: Living alone in a room, throwing things and utensils around, very wanton. A group of close friends also come to visit from time to time: VCD, karaoke, chatting, etc. are very popular. In short, you can do whatever you like.

Until one night, my longing finally came suddenly. I could not help but yearn for her voice, and my fingers dialed the phone number that I had forgotten so much that I had no idea. In an instant, I just I wanted to repeatedly say to the other end of the conversation line: "I was wrong, I want you back," but when the words came to my lips, I categorically abandoned these clichés and simply confessed directly: "I can't live without you." That's it, I gave up all male dignity and only looked forward to her warm and loving words.

However, there was nothing. "I have a new life" was the cold words sent back to me by my former lover.

The following is the emotional journey that most men go through after breaking up with their lovers:

Day 1 to Day 3: Perseverance and self-denial

When the heart breaks When you can only seek solace by turning to your best friend who was neglected when you were passionately in love, the other person is so calm and composed.

Day 4: The Great Purge

Day 5 to Day 21: First signs

When things have reached this point, you have begun to face reality. Listening to the long-repressed inner thoughts of his girlfriends, at this time, he began to realize that something was wrong with his life, or in other words, a little "not normal". In the past, he was accompanied by beautiful women, but now he is alone. Isn't this life a deviation? Orbit?

One month later: bluff

If you see your ex-male partner at this time, he will also have the same look that couldn’t be better - at least he will be strong. Hold on, relax, my lady, he is just living in his own lies. Isn’t that overly artificial laughter just that he is covering up the pain that is already happening in his heart?

6 weeks Later: Telephone Reconnaissance

You wake up one morning and suddenly realize that 24 hours have passed and you have not thought of him even once. You can’t help but feel a little sad because of this feeling of premature death; of course you are more Be proud of being happy, and be more mature and stronger after all this, but he is still preparing for another love pursuit, dreaming of capturing your castle. He feels lonely and sad, and he urgently needs to know who you are with. Together, are you living as uncomfortable as him?

Week 7 to Week 12: True feelings revealed

You decide to go on an appointment, and the other person is recommended by a friend and is a very good candidate. He was so sad that he just wanted to talk; he could talk to taxi drivers, cleaners, or even vendors, if they were willing to listen. However, sadly, after a long time, people around them have lost interest in it. They always wonder and say: "Hey, wasn't it last century when you broke up?"

6 Months to 2 years later: Start a new life

You are happy and relaxed, and the past has become a beautiful memory sealed in your heart. You can tell yourself loudly and tell the world that everything has ended completely. The future is a new page, and just when you least expect it, his phone call comes, asking and pleading with a trembling voice: "Can't you really start over?"

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