In this world, everlasting love is the most anticipated and desired, but everlasting love seems to be becoming increasingly rare. Especially after "lovers finally get married", the love that was once vigorous and vigorous often becomes dull or even abandoned halfway.

Some people say that marriage is the tomb of love. If you want love to last forever, don’t get into marriage.

Some people say that love is just a short-term libidinal reaction. Over time, it will suffer from aesthetic fatigue and disappear.

Some people say that there is no eternal love, only eternal marriage, because no matter how romantic the passion is, it cannot compete with the needs of life.

Indeed, no love remains unchanged. Love is always the appreciation, admiration and affection for the other half. This kind of love passion will not only change with time, one's own conditions, and the environment, but will also be affected by the other party's various conditions. A stable love must have a balance of power. If one party changes and the other stays the same, or even exposes more problems and shortcomings, such a marriage and love will inevitably encounter a storm. Unfortunately, many of us often only see that the other party has "changed their heart" and fail to realize that we should also change.

Everyone is no match for time, and everyone’s age, appearance, and figure will gradually become no longer what their lover originally loved. However, the charm of attracting each other will not decrease as age increases. Different ages have different beauty. People who know how to manage love will not slack off in the modification and maintenance of appearance, pay attention to health, and pay more attention to cultivation, knowledge, conversation, temperament, career... People who are both internal and external are attractive at any age. . Only such a "best self" that is constantly changing in concepts, appearance and actions can be full of comprehensive charm that transcends time and age, allowing the other person to still "love you with the pain on your aging face" when you are old. Wrinkles", only a love can compose an "eternal" fairy tale.

As Mr. Lu Xun said, love needs to be constantly updated and created. Men and women in this world cannot retain their beautiful appearance and youthful appearance, but they can retain their taste, temperament and charm.

So, don’t think that if he (she) loves me, he or she must love everything about me, including all my shortcomings. On the contrary, what he (she) loves can only be your advantages. However, when the love is strong, he (she) will automatically ignore it. After the passion cools down, these "cute" flaws will become the flaws of love.

Don’t think that falling in love with another person means finding a permanent place for love. Love is sometimes the most selfish and fragile emotion. Trying to prove and test love with mediocrity, boredom or even vulgarity brought about by laziness will always result in failure.

So, you must believe in eternal love, but you must use constant changes and updates to obtain it. Growth and change in marriage are the extension and sublimation of love.

This article comes from adult.6kmall.com and is published by netizens. This site only quotes it for reference. It does not mean that this site agrees with the views of the article. If you believe that the content and intellectual property rights of this article infringe upon your interests, please contact us.