The appearance of a love rival makes women crazy. Even the number one lady will get angry in her heart. But it's painful to leave a man you still love. Today's women are carnal-goers and can't bear this pain. If it hurts less to fight than to turn away, then you might as well do it on your own terms. In fact, in the end, those who won and those who couldn't win felt that they were ridiculous and worthless.

A love rival appears. Do you want him or face?

Jane Eyre likes Rochester, but when faced with the domineering Miss Ingram, her love gives way to her self-esteem and she retreats without a fight. Scarlett likes Ashley. From the age of 17 to 27, she has always been eager to try it out, but she has always been secretive, sensitive but not daring, and boring but not coquettish. Jane Eyre and Scarlett, one of these two women walked to the left and the other to the right. Anyway, the earth is round. One day they will meet in a small town in California. The only topic they can talk about is: Is it worth losing a man to save face?

For more than a hundred years, the human species has continued to degenerate. Half-hearted, irresponsible, and stepping on a few boats, this motto will make Jane Eyre ashamed and angry, and Scarlett will curse. Faced with such a man, if women do nothing - no one takes the initiative to call, MSN or blog, then there is no chance of rejection, and everyone carries it. This can be said to be a "tacit understanding of not talking", but how can the bilateral game continue?

Fortunately, most of the time games like love are not 2P, at least 3P, or even NP. Therefore, to win in the battlefield of love, there are two conditions: 1. The legs must be long, otherwise there is no way to cheat. 2. Learn to share love with others. This sharing is not selfless to allow men to enjoy the blessings of others, but to practice monopoly in the name of sharing; under the cover of sharing, the secret of monopoly is achieved. You have to be cheating and scheming. Both of these conditions sound very selfish - but philosophers say that to be happy, three conditions must be met at the same time: stupidity, selfishness and health. The truth is, we are all so smart and ruthless that we have to modify this happy G-spot: health, selfishness and the stupidity of others. By taking advantage of other people's stupidity, our love food chain will flow smoothly.

Why fight?

It’s certainly not worth losing a man for the sake of face. However, is it worth it to compete for men just for the sake of popularity? The good thing about this kind of man who wins is that he gives us the illusion that if he gets this man, he will get love and prove himself. There are similar illusions: thinking that getting a book means getting knowledge, thinking that going to the supermarket is just living a life. This illusion is untenable. Buying a book and reading a book are two different things, going to the supermarket and talking to each other are two different things, fighting for him and loving him are two different things. Therefore, there are so many women who, once they compete for him, give up on him and kick him.

At first glance, fighting for a man is out of possessiveness and competitiveness, like fighting for a beautiful doll with little sisters, but it is actually out of a simple desire for knowledge about life and oneself. Possessiveness is just the much criticized pointer on the dial. What really controls everything is the mechanical device and engine behind it - curiosity, a sincere and fragile thirst for knowledge that only smart people have and worry about being unable to grasp the world.

The end of the fight is often a woman's caricature. After a period of looting, it was Zhao Min who returned to the court in victory; Zhou Zhiruo was the one who refused to leave after losing and wanted to make a comeback; it was Xiao Zhao who was completely defeated and unable to make a comeback; it was A Li who was not qualified to fight anymore because of fate; he was too cowardly to dare The fight is over Gongsun Lv'e.

Love must be wise madness

In the hearts of men, the concepts of red roses and white roses have enduring charm and status. In order to make up for Zhenbao's regret, a small number of A man successfully pinned two roses to his lapel at the same time. This is by no means alarmist. There are many men who date or even live together with two women. Men can’t help but secretly laugh when they do so. Pondering: Can’t women see it?

Of course I can see it, but it is painful to leave a man you still love. Even if he has other lovers, you are willing to endure it first; or you firmly believe that this man is good, so you must work hard to defeat your love rival. Today’s women are carpe diemists.

You can get whatever you want, but you can't get it forever. The treasure to fight against "forever" is to live in time - "You should live without regret; let every moment be like the last moment, like a repetition of the last moment." This is the motto of the French materialist philosopher La Mettrie .

This kind of hedonic materialism is similar to women's "competition complex". The essence of both is: wise madness. Crazy, OK, but wise. The pioneer of hedonism said before he died that even if we love again, love will eventually disappear or become something else. But in order to suffer less torture and be less idle, it is better to set out now to find an absolute bachelor with a clean net worth. There is no wife at odds with him, no girlfriends who are public or private, few suitors who can tempt him, and no sex. A partner and an old lover who are still inseparable. There is no need to fight with another woman.

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