Love Psychology: Men love cute or mature women most
Recently, online reports such as "Russia's cutest 17-year-old man has become popular and is the envy of all male losers" and "Supermodels in sexy underwear blockbusters, with sultry curves and mature women's style" have aroused great attention and heated discussions among friends. . Whether she is a cute girl like a lolita or a mature lady like a royal sister, men will fall under her pomegranate skirt. Today, the editor will give you a detailed introduction to men’s favorite cute or mature women, let’s take a look!
When it comes to lolita, nine out of ten Japanese and Korean celebrities are on this list. Cuteness is the unique weapon of lolita. While it murders the tenderness of countless men, it also attracts the contempt of the other party: being too naive will end up being childish. In contrast, the queen is mature, deep and even spicy, just like the world's number one queen, Madonna, who makes the whole world crazy. While the big sister's style makes men surrender, it also inevitably makes some men stay away. When a pink and innocent loli meets a mature lady with aura, who will men fall in love with more?
Men’s point of view 1: Lolita is cute and lovable
Mr. Wu, 27 years old, network director
I don’t really know what a loli is and what a royal sister is, but when it comes to the type of girls I like, I still like the kind that are cute, clingy, and cute. As a girl, it's better to look like a girl. If a woman is too big, it will be difficult for people to approach her. Yu Jie should refer to a very powerful woman. I can only appreciate and admire that kind of woman. It would be nice to be friends together, but the premise is that the other person also thinks highly of me. It's too difficult to fall in love, so it's better to be a lolita type woman, who is relatively simple.
When it comes to marriage, the ideal type is of course a good wife and loving mother who can take care of everything at home. Maybe a royal sister-type woman is more suitable as a wife, but in reality, you still have to find someone who suits you.
Men’s point of view 2: A lolita outside is ideal and a lady inside is the ideal one
Mr. Li is a 26-year-old national civil servant
I feel that both Loli and Royal Sister types are very extreme. A real Loli has a very childish mentality and feels like she will never grow up. Her innocence is a bit too much. A real Royal Sister is also very mature and calm. A bit too much, both of which are a bit extreme anyway. If we only talk about these two types, I appreciate them both, because each has its own taste, and I can’t say which one is the best or which one is the worst. But if it comes to what I like, I would choose one of them, or it would be more appropriate to use someone who looks like a lolita but looks like a royal lady on the inside. Having both a simple and innocent side and a mature and generous side is the most ideal.
If you want to marry a wife, it is better to be the one between the two. It will be very troublesome to get along with someone with an extreme personality, especially after getting married. I prefer a more ordinary woman.
Expert opinion: To be a lover, look for a lolita; to get a wife, look for a royal sister
It is more suitable to be a lover and girlfriend Loli, and it is more suitable to be a wife, friend or partner, and it is more suitable to be a royal sister.
Lolita is suitable as a lover and girlfriend because she can give men the feeling of a little bird clinging to them. Most men who are looking for lovers and girlfriends have free time, and they can just spend time with them. It is easy to occupy their time, and it is easier to have some romance. Those kind of women are also easy to coax, and there is a threshold for the quality of men. Also lower. When it comes to caring for husbands, raising children, dealing with people, and managing money, Loli-type women are obviously still lacking in temperament. And as time goes by, the novelty is gone, the love is gone, and no one will coax her to live her life all day long. If a woman is not independent, she may only be used as a kind of doll in many cases, whether it is physically, mentally or emotionally.
Yu Jie is suitable as a wife, and many men have Oedipus complex. Mature men's happiness is not achieved through the desire for control, but through a sense of value identity, which is another level of psychological need.
Analysis: Sister Yu’s mature beauty is intoxicating
Personally, I prefer Yujie-type women. Because my emotional needs for women are defined by age and temperament. In my eyes, it is basically difficult for women under the age of 24 to have feminine charm. A woman's charm should come more from her independence, her wisdom, and her sensitivity to things. When I am with a mature lady, I will make progress. I will make progress every day and appreciate their charming temperament. On the contrary, when I am with that kind of childish girl, I will feel that life is worse than death. I don't know anything, I will burst into tears at every turn, and I will feel very tired. And feel less safe emotionally and psychologically. Because maybe one day she will trust another idiot man.
I appreciate mature women from a distance. Unless she gives a certain signal, I will take action. For this kind of woman's pursuit, signals are very important. Without signal, no matter how hard you chase, it may be in vain. The possibility of becoming friends with a lolita woman is very small. I could easily mistake that naivety for idiocy, or even pain.
Lolita outside and royal sister inside are a kind of wisdom of women
There is a saying that "gentleness is only given to the one you love". No matter how strong a woman is, she is still a woman and she needs a home. There are many highly educated leftover women who choose to be single and live alone because they are too saintly and are left because of their saintliness. It doesn't matter if a woman is strong, I'm just afraid of the kind of fake strong one. A truly strong woman will know how to moderate her edge and show weakness. In fact, in real life, many ladies are quite annoying when they are weak. Therefore, being a lolita outside is a kind of wisdom for women.
The above is a detailed introduction to men’s favorite cute or mature women. Therefore, in daily life, friends must be clean and self-loving, maintain a healthy mentality, actively pursue their significant other, and eventually hold hands with their children and grow old together!