Love is for "use"
Love one thing with one thing, who has not experienced this psychological mechanism? Even if it is a comb, after using it for a long time, you will have feelings for it, and you will even become dependent on it, and you will be reluctant to throw it away if it breaks. Therefore, the highest state of love is not only to appreciate, but also to use it boldly and with trust.
I interviewed a loving couple. The young wife has a mild fear of cars, so she doesn’t dare to learn to drive. However, she likes the coolness and sexiness of the man driving. For example, sitting in the passenger seat and looking at herself to the left The man's side face has sharp edges and corners, he is very focused and calm, and he feels very safe; looking out the window to the right, the scenery is blurry, changing, and rich...
She admitted with a smile that she initially fell in love with her current husband. He drives handsome and cool.
Her man, sitting on the same sofa, listening, smiling and nodding frequently, does not feel that this kind of love statement and love motivation are not sufficient, decent, official or romantic enough.
"I am useful to her. This is the most solemn compliment for me!" He couldn't help but sum up this way, and then he took his wife over. She added cooperatively: "My husband is my best coachman. ! ”
A lover likes to feel that you need him, otherwise, love is like a decoration and there is no sense of accomplishment. The more coldly you treat the one you love, the more likely you are to keep love away. You only know how good love is after you use it. If the person you love cannot rely on you, what else can this world support?
Many couples end up treating each other as strangers because they "basically don't use it." Love is like a lock. If you don't use it, over time, even the original partner's key won't be able to open it.
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