In daily life emotions, people all have this experience: the new clothes they originally liked will feel old-fashioned after wearing them for a long time, and no matter how they fit, they will be in vain; if they listen to their favorite songs every day, one day they will no longer feel moved. . The same situation will also appear in the sexual life emotions of couples who have been married for many years, which is called "sexual burnout". Medical research points out that at least 1/3 of middle-aged couples around the world suffer from sexual burnout.

Experts believe that as married couples age, their sexual desire and sexual activity gradually decline compared to before. This is an inevitable trend in the physiological process and is generally not considered pathological. But marriage is not just a piece of clothing or a song after all. Long-term sexual burnout will affect the relationship between husband and wife, and some people's marriages break up because of this.

When it comes to dealing with sexual burnout, many people immediately think of how to learn sexual skills, use props, etc. Experts believe that in order to fundamentally eliminate sexual burnout, we must start from the emotional point of view, so that couples who have been married for many years can regain the passion of their honeymoon and return their love to the temperature of the passionate love stage. Many old couples regard sex as a routine matter, which makes their sexual life emotionally boring. Over time, it eventually leads to sexual burnout. In fact, two people who love each other will naturally have sexual impulses. Therefore, love is the best cure for sexual burnout. To make love last forever, both parties must learn to add new content to love, otherwise love will only consist of family ties and responsibilities.

Three tricks can relieve couples’ sexual fatigue

After several years of sexual life, couples often cannot regain the passion and beauty of the past. Now I will teach you some ready-to-use tips on how to "renovate old love" and give your old sex a new look.

Many couples who were originally living harmoniously fell into the predicament of "sexual fatigue" after a few years and found it difficult to regain the joy of the past. There are many reasons here. Familiarity with your lover's body, tense pace of life, heavy work pressure and family burdens will all weaken the strong sexual desire in adolescence.

How to avoid "sexual fatigue" between couples, get out of the sexual dilemma, and regain the passion between husband and wife? In addition to the two great tips and small tips in the article, you must also do the following:

There is no set standard for the frequency of sex. For some couples, having sex once a month is more effective and both parties are satisfied, while some may only feel satisfied after having sex four or five times a week. These are individual differences and cannot be enforced. As long as both parties meet each other sincerely and express their feelings clearly, they will be in harmony and will not be suspicious of each other, otherwise a vicious cycle will form.

Sensual contact is not necessarily sexual. Men generally believe that sexual contact must include sex, which is wrong. Sex life includes many aspects, and it does not necessarily have to be accompanied by the excitement of sex every time. Women know best the fact that a certain sense of thoughtfulness is enough. That is to say, when she takes the initiative to hug you, she doesn't necessarily ask you to "really do it". Maybe she just wants to find a warm feeling.

Proceed with a plan. Sex life should also be planned, only in this way can there be tacit cooperation between lovers. In fact, it is also a very sensual enjoyment for two people to make a "sex life plan".