"Money" is the issue most likely to cause marital crisis. The survey found that people tend to marry people who are opposite to their own consumption views. For example, a person who loves to spend money is more likely to have a favorable impression of a person who saves money. But if they get married, their different views on consumption can turn into conflict, leading to more quarrels. Therefore, couples should develop similar consumption concepts and treat finances rationally.

Say more "I understand" and ask less "Do you love me". When you are in love, "I love you" can be remembered for a long time, but in married life, care and gratitude are more important. Use words such as "I understand", "Thank you" and "Don't worry" during conversations, and you will feel it in your heart. More love, less negativity towards each other. Also use fewer questions, especially less distrustful words like "Do you love me?"

Negotiate and quarrel with each other. Everyone has weaknesses, and some words between husband and wife will hit the sore spot and be difficult to accept. Negotiate together when you are calm and agree on what should not be brought up during an argument.

Keep having sex. Sex is a relationship-warming agent. Even if you are busy at work and getting older, don't stop having sex.

Be kind to each other’s family. Being able to accept and respect each other's relatives and friends is an important part of maintaining a marital relationship. Your sincerity will undoubtedly make the other person love you more.

Good women train good men

I have a colleague who is the only child in the family. His parents regard him as the apple of their eye. They usually do everything at home. He is a pampered son. Relatives and friends all said, what should I do if I get married in the future? Only if you meet a good woman can you live well, otherwise it will be difficult. Later he met a girlfriend, the two of them were very good, and they got married.

In married life, women want him to do everything, and men are a little reluctant, but if they don’t want to, they won’t go to bed with him, and they will sleep separately. In addition to this hard way to deal with her husband, she also has a soft way - she always says that she is not feeling well or excuses other things to go away, leaving everything at home to him. When he came back after finishing the work, she just smiled and didn't give him much encouragement, as if it was something he should do. But at night, she gave him a lot of tenderness and said that a man who knows how to do things is a good man. , in the future, if a woman is not around, she will not be unfamiliar with it. She said that she asked her husband like this not because she wanted to be lazy, but because she wanted to train her husband. And when her husband was not feeling well, she seemed to be very diligent in doing housework. In short, her method of training her husband was to be strict but loving, so that he would be convinced.

Under the guidance of his wife, my colleague turned into a completely different person. He became a man who loves doing housework, loves tidiness, and has a regular life. My parents-in-law like this daughter-in-law very much, and they also hope that their son can become like this. , feeling that their family is lucky to have such a good daughter-in-law.

Good women can train good men. If my colleague were replaced by another woman, this may not be the case, and it may lead to divorce.

When I see many couples getting into conflicts over trivial housework, neither of them wants to do more, for fear of "suffering a loss", they end up getting divorced, both parties suffer a big loss, and even the family is destroyed.

Many women tend to first love their men and do everything by themselves, gradually forming a habit. Later, housework becomes a matter of course for the wife in the eyes of her husband. Even if the woman is sick, the man will not do anything. In the end, the woman feels that the man has no sympathy and feels disadvantaged, which leads to family conflicts. If a woman doesn't pamper him at the beginning and intentionally lets him do things from small to large, from simple to complex, from less to more, let the man form a good habit of doing housework, so that the relationship between husband and wife will be stronger. If a man learns to do housework and does it regularly, he will know that doing housework is hard, and he will always be considerate to his wife, so that the husband and wife can live in harmony.