Love is often compared to fleeting fireworks, which are extremely gorgeous and beautiful when they are in full bloom, but no matter how hard you try, they will dissipate in the blink of an eye without leaving any trace. However, according to reports from many British and American media on January 4, American scientists used brain tomography images to discover that true love does not fade over time; even after being together for more than 20 years, some couples still maintain the same love they first fell in love with. The passion of the time.

A research team from the State University of New York at Stony Brook completed the study. Team leader and psychologist Arthur Allen said that they selected nearly a thousand old couples who had been together for 20 years, as well as new couples who had been together for less than one year and were passionate, and divided them into two groups. . The staff showed photos of their loved ones to the two groups of test subjects, and at the same time used MRI technology to scan their brain responses. The results show that among those who have been together for 20 years, more than 1/10 of them can also quickly secrete large amounts of the chemical dopamine in their brains after seeing photos of their lover.

Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that transmits feelings of pleasure and excitement and is called the "love hormone." The increase in dopamine secretion is one of the manifestations of strong feelings. This phenomenon is very common among people who are new to love.

The traditional view is that love will reach its extreme in the early stages of a relationship between the sexes, and then become increasingly indifferent. Generally, there are three "breaking points" in love, namely 12 months to 15 months, 3 years and 7 years after the relationship is established. "The gluey, confused and infatuated love will gradually fade away within 15 months of getting together, and will basically disappear after 10 years. However, our research proves that with the development and maturity of the psychological state, the tension in the early stage of love will And anxiety will be reduced, and a tolerant, peaceful and mutually dependent relationship will allow the two to enter a new 'love relationship'," said Arthur Allen. Michelle Jordan and her wife were the longest-married of the couples tested. By 2008, they had been together for 25 years. "Our love will always be 'just like the first time we met', and we are a couple that our friends envy and respect."

After analyzing the experience of loving couples, researchers pointed out that in order to maintain "lasting love", one should Pay attention to the following aspects: First, hold hands no matter who is in front of you or behind you. "When we walk on the street, we hold hands. Even if we buy a lot of things, we hold them in one hand and hold each other tightly with the other hand." Lisa, who has been married for 20 years, said. Second, share experiences without forcing your partner to agree or follow your own ideas. Third, little tricks that make daily life full of freshness and romance. Fourth, maintain a regular and good sex life, and arrange some "dates for two" from time to time.

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