I am 24 years old and already married. I am married to a man I don’t like. I don’t know how to face it in the future. I feel that the only thing a woman can do in her life is to find someone besides her parents. The man I like leads an ordinary life.

Before getting married, I was a very cheerful girl. Now I feel like I don’t know what I want to do and what I should do every day, and I have no goals or ideals. My husband is really nice, but I don't like him. Everything he does seems boring to me, and sometimes I don't even want to see him. But my parents like him very much because he is honest. I listen to my parents very much when it comes to relationships, because I feel that a marriage that is not favored by my parents will not last long. But after we got married, I realized how much I disliked him. He is in Japan now, and I am leaving in two or three months. In order not to worry my parents, I tried my best to like him. Now I don’t know what our marriage will be like in the future. Now I hate what he says and does, and I even feel uncomfortable smelling his breath! I don't know why this is happening, what should I do?

If a woman hates a man so much, why would you marry him? Is it just for "parents' orders"? You are not respecting your parents' opinions, you are irresponsible for your own life!

Indeed, even if there is no conflict of interests between some people, they are naturally at odds with each other. People call them "natural enemies." And some people feel more cordial even if they meet for the first time. People call this "similarity". That's right, the attraction of scent between a man and a woman is an important factor in the creation of love. Whenever a woman falls in love with a man, she always says she likes to smell him. This is called the smell of love.

And the fact that you are so disgusted with his taste shows that you and he are indeed not a compatible couple.

In this case, you really should ask yourself: Do you really decide to live with him like this for the rest of your life? Can you really make it to the end?

I think you are probably hesitating too.

It’s not that he is bad, it’s precisely because he is good that you are hesitant. You just want to break up, but you are afraid that you will regret it in the future, missing out on a man with such good conditions, and having to bear the bad reputation of a second-married girl; but you just make do with it, and you feel unwilling to do so. After all, you are only twenty-four years old, so it is At an age when you are picturing love in your head, it is really difficult to follow a man who is as honest as a pimple and stick to the end!

It’s not easy! It’s not easy! It can only be said that your initial weakness caused the current dilemma.

You said that you would go to Japan to meet him in a while. I think this is a shot in the arm between you and him. A woman, in a strange and helpless environment, is always easy to have a good impression of the people around her who are considerate of her. Perhaps, this is your last chance to fall in love with your husband. If, after a period of time, you still can't develop a good impression of him, then come back quickly and complete the divorce procedures with him. Really, if a woman doesn't even have a basic affection for her husband, her life will be really boring.

In the past, women always said: It is better to find a man who loves me to marry than to find a man who loves me to get married.

But the fact is that even a man who loves you requires you to have enough good feelings for him. Otherwise, just to covet the little kindness he treats you, then happiness will be for you. to punish. After this experience, you should know that marrying a man you don't love requires a lot of patience!

The time has come and we must learn to face it. But no matter what, remember one thing: If a man can't make you happy, don't force yourself to make do with him.

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