Recently, a cover article published in the American "Health" magazine refuted this misconception. The article interviewed many sexology experts in the United States and clearly pointed out: Older age also has sexual advantages, and sexual life after the age of 50 may be more satisfying.

1. Sexual desire may be stronger. Experts may tell you that falling hormone levels mean a loss of libido. In fact, this view may not hold true. Dr. Amanda Richards, professor of obstetrics and gynecology at the University of Miami Miller School of Medicine, said that after the age of 50, the sexual desire once suppressed by birth control pills will be released again, and the sexual desire may be stronger. Even if low sexual desire occurs, don’t worry too much. Modern medicine such as hormone replacement therapy can completely treat it.

2． Sex is uninterrupted. After the age of 50, sex will not be disturbed by children, and children will not wake up at night. Dr. Richards said time is of the essence when it comes to sex. Once the children grow up, couples will have more "two world" time, and sex will be more wonderful.

3. Become more aware of sexual needs. Dr. Margaret E. Wellman, professor of medicine at the University of Colorado Health Science Center, said that many women only realize the principle of "use it or lose it" in sex after the age of 50. Some research data show that as age increases, women become more aware of their sexual needs, become more relaxed during sex, become less shy, and become more satisfied with their sexual performance.

4． Don't worry about getting pregnant. "Thirty is like a wolf, forty is like a tiger." But at this time you still have to work hard for your career, take care of your children's food, clothing, housing and transportation, and you also need to be careful about contraception. Dr. Wellman said that many women still worry about getting pregnant in their 40s and 50s, but once they reach menopause, these worries disappear.

5． The economy is more stable. After the age of 50, the economy becomes more stable and housing conditions improve, and any room can be opened up as a sexual battlefield. As long as you want it, luxurious and sexy lingerie is no problem. Dr. Richards said that women after the age of 50 have greater financial control than when they were younger in terms of romantic dating and travel.

6. Lubricant aids sex. Hormonal changes in midlife can lead to vaginal dryness. But it also makes for a great excuse to experiment with lubricants. Dr. Richards said that lubricants not only help lubricate the vagina, but also help promote vaginal congestion, thereby improving the sexual pleasure experience.

7． There is less career pressure. After turning fifty, my career is basically stable. Although I am still a little stressed, the pressure is no longer greater than when I was young. Dr. Richards said women after menopause are more likely to reach the peak of their careers and therefore experience less stress. And stress is a big killer of sexual desire.

8. Sexual problems can be solved. One of the biggest nightmares of menopausal women is not to have sex anytime, anywhere, but to encounter their husbands who are "incompetent". However, whether it is premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction (ED), or low androgen, there are corresponding modern medical treatments. In addition, after the age of 50, couples are more open-minded, and it is not a bad idea to occasionally use sex toys to help achieve orgasm.