Whether condom dispensing machines can openly enter university campuses has aroused widespread debate. The author does not want to discuss what is right and wrong here, but I think we can see some interesting issues from the comments and reactions of the school and professors.

On the one hand, they admit that it has positive significance in protecting the sexual hygiene and health of college students and promoting condoms. At the same time, this is also conducive to the promotion of sex education. On the other hand, from the perspective of China's existing social culture and moral norms, this will have a negative effect on school education. "Students are not mentally prepared for this and have insufficient self-control." From the perspective of teachers and schools, not only is it inappropriate to introduce condom vending machines into schools, but it is also best for surrounding businesses to avoid selling such products.

The author’s opinion is that rather than saying that students are “not mentally prepared enough and have insufficient self-control”, it is better to say that professors and schools are not ideologically tolerant enough in this regard and have insufficient ability to respond to new things. China's rigid education system and educational personnel cannot play the important role of teaching, educating students, caring for students, respecting students, helping students, and guiding students in the new historical period. For various reasons, they mostly feel helpless. They are aware of their conservative side but are ashamed to admit it to a certain extent. For reasons we all know, we can't blame them.

So what is the policy attitude towards college students’ sexual behavior? How to actively guide it? Fundamentally, we must truly start from the perspective of the students themselves and avoid using clichés such as "bad social impact" and "campus spiritual civilization" -Sex is largely a private matter, don't put too many hats on it, it will just make people feel sick. After all, this is a human rights society, and it is moving towards a free society. ​

The school’s attitude towards this should be: 1. Protect healthy psychosexual, sexual and physical hygiene. Hold lectures and print event materials (it is recommended to introduce them from foreign schools); 2. Explores sex from the perspective of protecting female classmates. It uses data to explain various social prejudices against virgins and non-virgins, not from the perspective of feudal defenders, but more from the perspective of female students.

There are quite a few books in the United States that discuss the joy of sex and also explore women’s awareness of self-protection - using cases to prove that men may sexually deceive women during the relationship, so it is necessary to strengthen women’s self-protection rituals. This is a top priority for Chinese universities and they should urgently implement the "use doctrine".

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