Every day, there are always lively or sad love stories about couples on major dating websites. For women, the biggest worry when making friends on a dating website is "encountering a scammer." Many bloody realities teach everyone: there are always more men cheating on women online than on the ground!

A girl who was deceived by a fake rich man said:

Because I am 28 years old and my family is pressuring me to get married, I posted my marriage proposal on many dating websites and dating agencies. advertise. Six months ago, a 35-year-old fake multimillionaire who wrote about how he made his fortune from scratch proposed to me. Of course, please believe that I am not a woman who particularly loves money. It was mainly because my family forced me to get married, so I had no choice but to fall in love with him. Because the other party promised to marry me during the summer vacation, I stupidly lost my virginity after drinking... Just when things were going smoothly, I accidentally discovered that many girls were visiting his space, out of a woman's jealousy. , I accidentally added those girls’ QQ to find out. Of course, I am not afraid of making you laugh. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me because I was too strict with him. However, my "investigation" made me make a surprising discovery: those girls who often visit his space. It turns out that more than 60% of them (more than 30 people I have confirmed so far) have that kind of intimate relationship with him. They also call my man their "man". I was so angry that I was speechless.

Later, I naturally broke up with the liar, and I also consulted a lawyer. The lawyer said that because the liar only cheated on sex and not money, the law had nothing to do with him. But where is the law of heaven? One month after breaking up with him, I discovered that he continued to use false information to defraud the website. If he could be punished by law by exposing him, I would be willing to ignore my own face. The problem is that the lawyer said that his behavior was just Within the scope of morality, once it is revealed, I am afraid that I will be disliked by my future boyfriend while he is safe and sound, which is what I don't want to see. Can you write an article on similar topics to remind stupid girls like me not to be easily fooled?

Su Qin said:

Currently, there are tens of millions of registered members on Chinese dating websites. Every day, there are always lively or sad love stories of a couple on major dating websites. For women, the biggest worry when making friends on a dating website is "encountering a scammer." Many bloody realities teach everyone: there are always more men cheating on women online than on the ground!

The rise of dating websites in China is only within the past ten years. For such a short-lived new industry, it is indeed not easy to be safe and effective. It is worth emphasizing that in some foreign countries, there are indeed some marriage and love agencies that specialize in providing marriage and love services for wealthy people and successful men, with extremely high success rates. Of course, the premise is that these men are registered with real names, and all personal information and related backgrounds are true. In addition, the service provider will carry out large-scale preliminary arrangements and conduct rigorous testing and screening of applicants based on each customer's requirements for a future partner, including an interview team composed of experts. In addition to working on the appearance of the applicants In addition to strict evaluation on educational background, etc., there will also be a series of soft assessments on personality tests, psychological tests, etc. to ensure that everything is as foolproof as possible. Moreover, in many countries that attach great importance to integrity, even ordinary people do not have the awareness and courage to pretend to be multi-millionaires and go around defrauding money and sex.

So, the phenomenon of fake rich people on dating websites is really a phenomenon with Chinese characteristics. Think about it for a moment, a thirty-five-year-old man with a net worth of tens of millions, such a good condition, and so eager to get married, does he have to go to a dating website to find a wife? Nowadays, the streets are full of leftover girls with good conditions, and each of them says that they can't meet a good man. Do you think it is really possible for this thirty-five-year-old multi-millionaire to be left alive until now? ! If you really think so, you're really underestimating a woman's keen eye.

On dating websites, women should immediately skip any wealthy people who claim to have a net worth of over 10 million or over 100 million. Generally speaking, these are either pure scammers, or they are often recruited from within the website. The shills, they are posted there, not to find wives or husbands, but just advertisements for the website itself to collect membership fees and attract applicants. There has been similar news before. Some white-collar workers were inexplicably "friended" by dating websites. Although they clearly did not sign up to join, their information was posted online for no reason and they became registered members of the website. By the way, It has also become the living sign of the website. Therefore, for those women who are bent on catching a giant beetle from a dating website, don’t be too excited if you actually see a “golden turtle”. Let’s check whether its ingredients are real or fake first.

In addition, let’s take a look at the methods scammers on dating websites like to use to package themselves. After all, how could a man in his early thirties, rich in wealth and elegant, be "left behind"? Logically speaking, there is no reason why they have to go to the website to find a wife?

In response to women’s doubts, scammers often make up similar reasons:

They are busy with work and ignore their feelings. This is the reason for fraud with the highest click-through rate. Because I was too focused on work, I missed the best years of my life and am still alone today. Moreover, after such a reason is spoken, the woman opposite will usually be moved and happy: she has found a big treasure! But if you believe it, you will be stupid! Of course there are people who neglect their feelings because of work, but it is impossible for a man to be alone and work hard until he is in his early thirties! Men are sexual beings, and if they have a career, they need a woman to accompany them.

I have been hurt emotionally and dare not fall in love easily. They also knew that it would be unreasonable for a man in his thirties to pretend to be an innocent man, so they simply acted as an injured person, making his age and experience become natural and real.

Believe in fate, you can’t find a woman who feels right in reality. This reason is the easiest for women to believe, because women themselves are all fantasy, and they always lament that there is no miracle of love at first sight, but think about it, across such a long network cable, you can be sure that he is real at the other end. Did it fall in love with you at first sight?

I want to find a virtuous wife. Many "fake rich people" flaunt their "assets" on the one hand, and on the other hand they tell women, "Women in real life love my money and cannot be trusted. I just want to find a virtuous woman who can live a down-to-earth life through the Internet." . This is pure nonsense! If you really want to find a woman who is not greedy for money regardless of her background, you should not show off your wealth. The purpose of showing off is to attract more women to take the bait.

Reason without reason. There are also some "fake rich" who cheat without any reason at all. He also often behaves indifferently to women who come to his door, asking more questions than answering. But often, such people are easiest for women to believe. Everyone always thinks that real rich people must have a bit of "air". The cooler a person pretends to be, the greater the chance that women will believe him.

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Usually, a man who really wants to marry a woman is often better able to suppress his sexual desire and wait for a woman's affection. Any man who seduces you as soon as you meet him is 90% here to deceive you. If a man just met you on a dating website and he tries every means to seduce you, for such a man, you might as well not give him another chance in the first place. Because, as it is true for you, it will be true for other women as well. If you keep dating him, you will make unbearable "new discoveries" every day.

If you really want to try to find your future partner through the Internet, remember:

Don’t regard dating websites as the last straw for your marriage. Don't have the mentality of "must succeed", it will only make you blind and make you believe the words of people you shouldn't believe. Cheating men are always taking advantage of women's "rush to marry" mentality.

Don’t trust the other person’s personal information too easily. The more impeccable a person’s personal information is, the more likely they are to be a liar. People who are truly in perfect condition do not need to go to a professional matchmaking agency to choose a spouse. Before that, they will be booked. On the contrary, those whose profiles were more plain and detailed were more authentic.

Any man who promises marriage or asks for sex as soon as they meet is not reliable. The former said "marriage" casually without having any in-depth understanding, just to use "marriage" to stabilize the woman and open her heart, and then make other inappropriate moves. And the latter is simply a pervert.

A man who refuses to reveal too much personal information to you or bring you to meet your family and friends after dating for a period of time is someone who has no intention of marrying you. He hides you just to make it easier to break up in the future.

Women, after successfully making friends online, you should try your best to introduce this man to your relatives and friends, and let them help you identify the authenticity of this man. Women are always shy and feel that things are immature and they should not be allowed to meet relatives and friends casually. However, many pervert men take advantage of this to play with women. Love is impulsive. If you feel dizzy temporarily, please ask the people around you to help you see the problem soberly.

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