Some people say: Time alone is very lonely. Someone else said: The life of two people is more lonely. In fact, these two sentences do not sound contradictory. One person has his own sorrow and knows how to be warm and cold. Two people have their own troubles, and one person cannot solve them. The phenomenon of loneliness within marriage is common in modern marriage relationships. Maybe some men don’t say it because they don’t need it but they don’t know how to ask for it. Maybe some women say it because they talk too much and it hurts them and they don’t know what to do. Do.

Yesterday, another girlfriend told me that she was desperate for marriage. Every time she heard such words, she couldn't help but sigh, because she always insisted that marriage is the closest way to happiness. But it cannot be denied that the emotional orientation and marriage concepts of men and women are now undergoing huge impact from the changes of the times. When we are proud or frustrated, we have to hurt the people around us who love us the most, and the utilitarianism in love and the tiredness in marriage Indifference, the gloominess in human nature, will show its ugliness and desolation at the moments when we need help most in life. Loneliness in marriage needs to be resolved in the right way. Otherwise, love will turn into ashes and marriage will be ruined. In the end, the victims will still be the men and women who were entangled in love and hate. Complaining will lead to falling into the abyss, and pain will be wasted. time. But I would like to say again, dear, try to change what can be changed, and calmly accept what cannot be changed, either it starts or it ends. In fact, the beginning and end in life never stop. We must pay the pain and price, and joy and happiness must come and go. As long as you love her, she will not be willing to leave you for too long.

Loneliness is mostly an emotional desire. This is originally a noble spiritual need of human beings. If it is only a physical need, it is a symptom of emptiness. Don’t make excuses for your boredom. Abuse tarnishes loneliness. As we grow up, loneliness is always there, whether it is one person or two people, because our emotional needs will become stronger with age, but we will be confused and lost when we can't find ourselves, and others will How can it be possible to understand your needs at any time? However, for mature men and women, the expression of strong emotions is profound and calm, flowing as deep as still water, rather than passion and gorgeousness, like the blooming period of roses. For immature men and women, strong needs are often accompanied by domineering possession and willful behavior. Sometimes pain is unavoidable. Only those who fall and really hurt will know how sad it feels to lose. You know, you will be lonely if you don't love, and you will be even more lonely if you don't love. It is not love that maintains marriage, but marriage that insists on love. If you want love to last forever between two people, you have to have the courage and patience to run a marriage. A plain and mundane marriage. However, if we place our hopes entirely on love and marriage because we are afraid of loneliness, the result is destined to be loss. Loneliness, to put it bluntly, is our own business. If you can't solve it yourself, you can't blame others.

I have been in love for a long time. Rather than saying it has become indifferent, it is better to say that after each other puts their hearts at home, the "connection" will be "connected" all the time, and loneliness will no longer be mentioned. At least you know that he is by your side when you need him. He hears your words as soon as they are spoken and may not answer them. He stretches out his hand until the ring is still there. As for the details and faults involved, why do you care so much about it? In fact, marriage For us, it is a process of entering a state of "reassuredness". It may take a long time to get along, but we can always wait until we can go see the scenery together with peace of mind. If this process becomes more and more "worrying", then such a marriage will not be happy even if it continues, and loneliness will "erode away" the last moral bottom line of men and women in marriage, and what they do will evolve into Ridiculous injury. Betrayal of marriage is a very serious matter, both physically and mentally, and even if time passes, the pain will last for years. Human emotions are always easy to be hurt but not easy to heal, so along the way in life, you must remember to protect yourself, and also protect and treat those who once loved you.

Of course, if you want to correctly resolve the loneliness in marriage, you must first learn to mature and enrich your own spiritual world. Thoughtful men and women are beautiful even if they are lonely. If the loneliness in marriage is caused by emotional problems between husband and wife, you should first find ways to actively solve the problem and tide over the crisis smoothly. A loving man and woman can be relied on even if they are lonely.

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