Decrypt a man’s heart and be a close lover

What unknown inner words are hidden in a man’s heart, come and take a look!

1. Men will classify women

When interacting with women, men will quickly divide women into two categories in their minds: "temporary dating" and "long-term development partner" . It may not be easy for women to understand, but from a man's perspective, there is a clear difference between the two. Of course, they won't tell you which category you are classified into. This is a typical manifestation of the different emotional needs of the sexes. Therefore, in the budding stage of love, we must open our eyes wide and use all our strength to see through a man's sincerity. If you find that you are just a playmate of the other party, you must get out as soon as possible and make a clean break.

2. Reasons why men want to keep a distance from women

When men are in a relationship with a woman, in order to confirm their love for each other, they sometimes choose to keep a distance. If there are any differences or misunderstandings between two people, the man will first put a little distance between them to calm them down. Contrary to women's desire to solve problems as soon as possible, men are committed to identifying points of disagreement, exploring the causes, and finding ways to save them. Relatively speaking, men focus on rationality and calmness when dealing with problems, while women focus on timeliness and expressing emotions. According to the emotional characteristics and patterns of each gender, when encountering problems, both parties will choose different outlets to find solutions. But if a man still can't figure it out after searching for a long time, he will feel a strong sense of frustration and feel that he cannot bring happiness to his lover, so he will give up on their love.

3. Men don’t understand women’s silence

When quarreling, women usually express their opinions and current psychological feelings very directly and frankly, sometimes in a more violent way, which often makes men Crazy. However, once you shut up, it usually means that you have no intention to continue communicating and would rather choose silence at this time, which is a kind of "silent protest". This is actually a danger signal in communication and is more terrifying than a loud quarrel.

But men often do not realize the seriousness of the matter. They just cannot understand this - according to men's habitual way, they all start to solve the actual problems. If the truth doesn't hold up for you, you will be speechless - this is a natural reaction for a straightforward man. Therefore, when a woman falls silent, they will naturally think according to their own ideas that the woman has admitted her mistake. If you encounter something you don't agree with, it's best to convey it to the other party candidly and clearly. Silent passive resistance can only deepen misunderstandings and is not conducive to real resolution of the problem. Recognizing the emotional differences between the sexes is of great significance to running a successful relationship.

4. Most men are not good at romance

Unlike women, men are really not good at romance. Maybe romance itself is not in line with a man’s “physique”. Men are burdened with too many missions and too many responsibilities. They have to support many things, and romance has nothing to do with them. Therefore, it is unfair to measure whether a man loves you by whether he is romantic or not.