Nowadays, many marriages and families are experiencing emotional crises. Mutual distrust and the inability to withstand external temptations have become the reasons for many people to cheat and eavesdrop. At this time there are endless lies and betrayals. So below we will analyze several lies that exist between men and women, and hope that everyone can treat them with caution.

If you are never caught, you never see someone again, and you are having safe sex and you don't tell anyone, does that count as cheating? It all depends on you. If you really feel that the wind has passed Wuhen, then you don’t need to count it. But the problem is that few people feel from the bottom of their hearts that there is absolutely nothing wrong with cheating. Even the best liar will know that cheating is a bad thing, and when you deceive your partner, your feelings towards the other person are also changing. You will feel that the other person is either too naive or too easy to deceive. In short, an essential element in the relationship between men and women has been lost: respect.

Men and women are different on this issue. When a woman cheats, it's a sign that she's not satisfied with her relationship, but it's a little different for men. No matter how much a man loves his wife and no matter how happy his life in bed is, they will still not give up having a romantic affair once they have the opportunity, as long as they feel that they will not be caught. A survey showed that 56% of men who cheated thought their marriages were happy, while only 34% of girls agreed.

Some affairs are just for sex, and most involve sex. This is because having sex with someone other than your partner is taboo. It’s precisely because it’s not possible that makes people want to try it even more. But an affair doesn’t have to be just about sex, simply put, it’s about getting something your partner can’t give you. As for what this thing is, it varies from person to person. Sometimes even the cheaters themselves can’t tell what it is. Some of them are to recall something they lost when they were young. Some are to pursue the feeling of youth. Some people are even unfaithful to their “perfect” partner because they are fed up with this. A sense of perfection! Therefore, affairs and sex cannot be equated.

It seems so, but that may not be the case. But this does mean that he no longer respects you that much, and he no longer values ​​the promises you made before. And your values ​​​​are already different. Some people can separate love and sex. Their cheating is simply sleeping with someone else, but it does not mean that they no longer love their partner.

This may have been the case before, but now the reasons why men and women cheat are actually the same: they like the new and dislike the old. Cheating is always bad, but the feeling of doing something bad makes you want to try it even more. It’s just that women prefer to use this kind of interface: Anyway, my partner doesn’t value me, so I am “qualified” to enjoy a casual relationship. In the past, we would only buy ourselves lipstick, a new haircut, etc., but now we use it for men. However, cheating on women still carries more burdens than men because women are more likely to feel guilty. However, since research shows that women are better at lying, it is more likely that women will cheat without being caught.

It is also a misunderstanding to say that men like to sleep with their female friends. Most men who are unfaithful think that they should find someone farther away to avoid trouble. On the contrary, psychologists believe that it is women who secretly hope that friendship will develop into romance. They always invest a lot of affection in their friends of the opposite sex and keenly test whether the relationship can develop into a better relationship than the one I have now. Therefore, women often make friends to find their true soul mates, while men just do it for fun.

People who have had affairs always think that sleeping with their ex is no problem. At least it is not as unforgivable as sleeping with someone new. Since they have already broken up, the affair will not be complicated. In fact? Big mistake. What you are thinking about may be that you have slept in the past, but now it is just catching up on sleep, which does not represent any future possibilities. But what about the other party? He may think this is a precursor to your getting back together. So you are faced with the dilemma of breaking up with him again, and you also have to explain to your current girlfriend why after so long, your ex suddenly starts sending you emails and calling you again. This is much easier to detect than sleeping with a stranger. At least the stranger can leave after sleeping, and the ex wants to email to break up.

Not everyone can pat their chests and swear that they will stay true to themselves until death. Because outside of marriage and relationships, there are many things that affect people's thinking and concentration. As I said, if you want to make your marriage happier, what you need is more understanding, trust and tolerance between husband and wife.

Five clues to track your lover's infidelity

1. He never leaves his mobile phone

In the past, he would sometimes leave his phone aside, but now his phone is always within a centimeter of him. Additionally, his phone is nearly silent and will not respond to certain calls in your presence.

Suggestion: Pretend your phone is out of battery and borrow his phone. If he acts nervous, there may be something behind that emotion. You can take this opportunity to ask him and ask him to show you the text messages on his mobile phone to prove his innocence.

2 He suddenly pays attention to dressing up

Although he is not a sloppy person, you still notice the changes in his clothing: new clothes, new perfume, etc. These changes are enough to remind you whether his inexplicable changes mean the existence of someone he wants to please. .

3. More and more evening entertainment

In recent weeks, he has been socializing more often in the evenings, or going out with friends more frequently, whereas before he was more accustomed to going home early. Meeting once a week is normal, but two or three in a row is worth asking him about. It's not about monitoring, it's about finding the cause of the change.

Suggestion: Ask him to go to a cozy bar and let him "fess up" in a relaxed atmosphere.

4. Sudden interest

Usually, his biggest hobby is to slump on the sofa after work. But recently, he has become obsessed with a new activity. This new “enthusiasm” may be an excuse to meet someone more easily.

5. Suddenly becomes affectionate

A woman or a man will feel guilty if they cheat on their lover. In this case, he or she will appear more sentimental, act more affectionate than usual, and even buy you gifts to secretly "atone" for your sins.

After reading the above introduction, I hope that couples can give each other more understanding if they are always suspicious every day. Or frequently looking through each other's private things will only make the situation worse. Therefore, if you want to have a more harmonious relationship between the sexes, you must know tolerance and tolerance.