Marriage is like a pair of shoes. You don’t know whether they fit or not until you put them on. Before wearing it, you can only compare which size suits you better. But some people insist on that pair of shoes even though they know they are not suitable for them, or they just pick them up without carefully comparing them, just like someone who needs to wear size 44 shoes but chooses size 38 shoes. Such a result will cause these people to choose shoes that suit them again, and choose shoes under their new identities of "second-hand men" and "second-hand women". Although "second-hand men" and "second-hand women" are all of second-hand quality, their fates are completely different. "Second-hand women" are like second-hand MP3s or second-hand mobile phones. Few people with enough capital will choose second-hand goods unless there is something special that attracts someone. However, "second-hand men" are sometimes more popular than "first-hand men" in the marriage market. This is just like a house, resale goods are always more expensive than first-hand goods. This is the topic we are going to talk about today ""Second-hand men" are gradually becoming popular in the marriage and love market, sad! ", from the topic, we can draw some thoughts, why are "second-hand men" gradually becoming popular in the marriage and love market? And why did I add the word "sad" at the end?

Because houses are subject to speculation, the price will rise every time they change hands. As for why "second-hand men" also take the "real estate-style" route, we have to start with a common saying. There is a saying that "people always become more mature after being injured." Precisely because "second-hand men" have experienced marriage, many women feel that after being hurt in marriage, these "second-hand men" are more resistant to marriage, know better about managing marriages, and know better about cherishing women. Compared with those "first-hand men" who have never experienced marriage, they have no concept of marriage and are relatively immature. It seems that they cannot provide women with a guaranteed marriage. Under this subconscious mind, "second-hand men" are slightly better than "first-hand men" in the marriage and love market.

And this result just tells us that this is a kind of sadness. "Second-hand men" become "second-hand men" precisely because they don't know how to manage a marriage. A person who has worn shoes before wearing other shoes can clearly know what size of shoes he is suitable for, but he no longer has the enthusiasm of wearing shoes for the first time. For marriage, women feel that they choose "second-hand men" because they are more mature and know how to cherish women. But "second-hand men" have experienced marriage failure. They don't want to fail again, so they will try their best to protect the marriage. Remember that the deep consciousness is to protect the marriage, and the surface is to protect the woman. Such a marriage is nothing more than an empty shell of marriage, not true love at all. There are also women's misunderstandings about maturity. Most men after divorce will become more mature in their thinking. If you miss once, how can you let yourself miss twice. But men who have never been divorced or married are not immature than "second-hand men". It is precisely because they have been more mature than "second-hand men" that they know how to manage marriage slowly after being exposed to marriage. In fact, there are many "first-hand men" who are more mature than "second-hand men", but their romance overshadows their maturity. But most women feel that their little experience cannot bring them maturity. This is essentially a misunderstanding of maturity. If women still think that "second-hand men" are more mature, they undoubtedly regard excessive marriage as a price for maturity, and on the contrary, it becomes an excuse for men. In the future, after a divorce, any man will not have to pay for his first marriage at all. It will simply mean that he will become more mature and cherish his marriage more after the divorce. This is such a sad result. I didn’t cherish the first marriage, but I will cherish it even more the second time. There are not so many regrets in the world.

Whether it is a "first-hand man" or a "second-hand man", all men are the same as long as they can get happiness. Since most "second-hand men" are economically stronger, it is undeniable that some women choose "second-hand men" to pursue material happiness. Of course, everyone has the right to decide their own future.

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