Learn to deal with office romance wisely
As urban white-collar workers are under increasing work pressure and spend more and more time and energy on work, the office has become the place where they interact most frequently with people, making it difficult to get along day and night. Making the office the largest “romance incubator”.
In "Du Lala's Promotion", Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing are an enemy couple who started their office romance. Wang Wei, played by Huang Lixing, always reaches out to Du Lala when she is most difficult at work. In the care and care of Du Lala, Du Lala unconsciously relied on and fell in love with Wang Wei. However, the relationship between Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing was a forbidden love in the office, because the company had regulations that men and women in a relationship must be separated.
When you first entered the workplace, did many people tell you not to fall into an office romance? Otherwise, how do you balance work and love? Moreover, when work is involved in personal life, one's own little secrets will inevitably be exposed. If he is your boss, your little progress will have to be questioned by the strange looks of your colleagues.
However, falling into an office romance is not just about breaking up or changing jobs. In "Du Lala's Promotion", Xu Jinglei finally gained career and love. Faced with a subtle and embarrassing office romance, learn from Du Lala, a workplace expert, and maintain your rationality and principles of doing things. You can also have both work and romance.
You need to think carefully at the beginning, and you also need to be careful in your actions. Have an unstoppable crush on him in the office? Well, the secret to success lies in comprehensive observation and careful consideration: Do you like him because of his physical appearance, or because of the way he works? If you are not sure that you have a comprehensive understanding of him, then it is better to act slowly. Think about it, what if you lose your trust and lose your job?
Once you make up your mind to grow, be wise. If you want to invite him, a half-business, half-private invitation to have a drink after get off work would be a good start. Never use the company's internal emails to convey your affection to him, and don't let your relationship become a topic of conversation in the office. Never imitate the character played by Pace Wu in the movie and use your work email to send photos, because in reality there are no human resources like Lala.
In the process of your relationship, you need to be careful every moment in the office. Even if the relationship between you is going very smoothly and you are happy and sweet every day, you must not act like a nymphomaniac. When you walk into the office with happiness, don't look at him with loving eyes from time to time. Try to go to work normally as before.
When everything is going well, be careful to separate romance from work. Now you've safely bypassed the initial hurdle - your colleagues' concern for you. As your relationship continues to develop and work progresses, there will be no gossip from colleagues.
If unfortunately the relationship ends, please maintain basic courtesy. Whether you can't stand him anymore and dump him, or he hurts you unkindly, you have to resist the idea of getting back at him. Keep at it, maybe you won't care anymore, maybe he will be the one to leave the company.
In short, office romance is like walking a tightrope. If you want to walk the entire process safely, you must be cautious, otherwise you will lose your job and lose your lover.
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