The virtuous wife turned out to be a prostitute!

Regardless of past suspicions, it’s easy to say in four words. In the past, I didn’t have any special feelings about these four words, but now I suddenly discovered: being able to do these four words is really not the realm of mortals!

At least, I, a grown man, don’t have the courage to “regardless of past grudges” now!

Eight years ago, I met my current wife through chatting. On our first date, I felt that although she was not a great beauty, she was quite charming, had a college degree, and had a fixed career in my hometown. She made a pretty good impression on me. In this way, we got married soon.

But what makes me feel very strange is that in the few years after we got married, although there were no protective sexual measures between us, my wife has never been able to get pregnant. Later, I learned from the hospital’s physical examination report that the original problem lay with the woman: her body fluids somehow contained substances like sperm antibodies.

Being sad and disappointed, I once wanted to adopt a boy as a son. But luckily, a few months ago, my wife finally became pregnant for the first time.

However, the world is always small sometimes! In the second half of this year, I went to a certain city in the south to visit an old classmate whom I hadn’t seen for many years. After seeing my wife and I’s wedding photos, the other person mysteriously told me: About ten years ago, my wife had gone to a certain place in the local area. I worked as a "Miss" in Sauna City. And he once received "full service" from my wife. He claimed that because it was the only time he spent the night with a young lady, he was deeply impressed by her appearance... He also reminded me that foreigners often come in and out of that sauna, so for the sake of my health, For your own sake, let me check to see if I have been infected with any disease!

I was doubtful at the time. When I got home, I asked my wife about the authenticity of the matter. Unexpectedly, she admitted everything! She said that she was still a college student in the city at that time. Due to emotional frustration, in order to get revenge on her ex-boyfriend and to better support her family, she temporarily lost her mind and did that kind of thing. After two years of working in the industry, she abused medication to have multiple abortions. She was afraid that she would not be able to have children in the future, and she was often condemned by her conscience and morals. So after graduation, she left that city and came to another city to start a new life!

Oh my God! Two years...two years! Although she resolutely refused to reveal how many men she had met, I calculated by myself that if she only received one customer a day, excluding her menstrual period, then she would have been touched by at least five to six hundred men in two years. If she received two customers a day, A person is likely to have been touched by at least a thousand men in two years. If she receives more than two customers a day... I don't dare to calculate it any more... If I continue to calculate it, I will really collapse!

She is my first woman, but I don’t know how many men she is, although she has been playing the role of a "good wife" for more than six years after marriage. —That is, give me the "maximum" sexual satisfaction in bed, and do the housework for me as much as possible off the bed.

Should I divorce my wife who has been very docile to me since marriage but did that kind of thing before marriage? I haven't talked to her intimately for more than 20 days. Although I know that she was very sad during this period, and I also know that a pregnant woman's emotions may affect the health of the fetus, I still can't let go of what she did before.

What should I do? If we really divorce her, will she go back to her old career out of sadness?

In the face of pain, you must learn to divert your attention

In the past, when reading ancient Chinese story novels, the most common sentence was: Nothing can be written without coincidence.

However, I always feel that no matter how coincidental the story is, it is just a story in a book. But today I saw the message from this desperate husband, and I discovered that beyond the words, there was such an amazing "coincidence"! It's just that the "coincidences" in reality are much more unbearable and cruel than the stories in the book!

I believe that no one who has read your story will not understand your current mood! A man may not care whether his wife was a virgin before marriage, but he really cannot care whether his wife was a prostitute before marriage. When encountering such a thing, the problem cannot be solved by simply advising you to "relax and tolerate your big belly".

But, having said that, when a man encounters this kind of thing, if he doesn’t relax and tolerate it, it’s really hard to find other solutions! You ask: "Should I divorce her?"

But have you considered: Even if you divorce her, the pain in your heart may not be reduced much! She was once your wife, she was once the love interest of your old classmate... All of this cannot be changed even if you get divorced! If you can't change something, you will use it to torture yourself all your life, and you won't be able to let it go!

What's more, if it weren't for the unexpected revelation of the truth by your old classmate, you would feel that her wife is really satisfying to you. She is your best partner both in and out of bed. You love her and hope to spend the rest of your life with her. Therefore, if you really get divorced and remarry another woman, you will inevitably be compared with them in your life. Since there is comparison, there will be pain!

The most difficult thing for people to endure is not external blows, but their own thoughts. Therefore, after knowing the truth, you count every day how many men she has had, and the more you count, the more heart-wrenching and painful it becomes. Spare yourself, try to learn to divert your attention, divorce or not, you should not abuse yourself! If this continues, it will be difficult for your spirit to sustain for long!

In fact, if you think about it, people will take the wrong path when they are young, but hers was a deeper mistake. If you don't forgive her, then the world will have nothing to blame you, but if you are willing to forgive her, then I believe that she will repay you with twice as much kindness in the future. By then, she will not only feel sorry for you, but she will even want to repay you. This is often the case with women, if you treat her well, she is willing to repay you even more!

You are wondering: What should you do now?

Let me say this: If you still want to keep your child, don’t mention the divorce during this period, and try to be a happy father-to-be and mother-to-be as before. After all, even if she has a "disgraceful past" and even if she has "deceived" you, as a man, you have no right to treat a woman who is willing to give birth to a child for you the slightest bit "bad" to her! During this time, think about your future. Of course, maybe in a few months, when you have children, your thoughts will be a little different from now, and you will be more rational and mature!