Hong Kong's "Ta Kung Pao" reported that more and more Japanese women are delaying their marriage age or not getting married at all. But for Japanese women who are still willing to try romantic love, many would rather choose a sister-brother relationship. Japanese women are becoming more and more financially independent, a trend that makes them more willing to stay with men younger than themselves.

Haishi Kaori, who once wrote a book on this topic, said: "In the past, marriage was for life. Now it is for having a partner you can grow old with." She is 40 years old and her husband 6 years younger than her.

According to statistics, in 1987, the ratio of male to female couples in Japan was less than 18% of the total. Four years ago, it had increased to nearly one-third of the total.

The age at which Japanese women get married continues to extend. The average age of first marriage in 1992 was 25.9 years old. Last year it was 29.8 years old. Women over 30 are still single It increased from 14% in 1990 to 32% last year.

Psychologist Riga Kayama said that the reasons for this phenomenon are complex. One of them is the increasing working status of Japanese women and the traditional concept that they must obey men. There is an obvious gap between them. She said: "If the work performance is competent and the income is high, it is often difficult for Japanese women to find suitable husbands and partners."

The owner of the "Goodwill Planning Company" that specializes in guiding people Daisuke Inoue said that about half of the company's female clients over 30 specify to date younger men, and the proportion is likely to continue to increase.

Xiangshan Riga said: "More and more women are choosing younger men mainly because they believe that personal value does not need to be established by the financial ability or status of their partner, but by It’s up to you to pursue it.” Japanese women no longer have to quit their jobs as soon as they get married. The Equal Employment Opportunity Act, which came into effect in 1986, lifted many career barriers that Japanese women had previously faced.

In the past, if a Japanese woman dated a younger man, both parties might be embarrassed. Tsukuda Mika, 35, said her friends believed dating younger men was a "status symbol." Her husband is 29 years old.

Young men have a more open attitude, which is very attractive to many Japanese women who do not want to be bound by the traditional role of a good wife and mother. Kaori Haishi said: "The older men I have dated all want me to quit my job immediately after marriage." She and her partner have been married for eight years, but the other person has never said such a thing.

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