Houses, cars, bills, pensions, milk powder money, and the rapid improvement of material life have made the "post-80s" who are about to stand up gasp for breath. More and more leftover men and leftover women tell us a true fact: those born in the 1980s who have already reached the age of marriage are avoiding marriage. Among them, men are even worse. For this reason, more and more women choose to take the initiative to propose marriage. , to resolve the confusion of fear of marriage.

Ms. Su and her boyfriend have been in a relationship for ten years. From the moment they first met in college, they jumped to the moment when they are together. The other person has long been an important part of her life, but her boyfriend has not proposed. Ms. Su said: "My boyfriend is very chauvinistic. He has always promised me a carefree life. However, as the four elderly people grow older and the pressure of life increases, the "economic dream" that my boyfriend wants to realize becomes more and more difficult." In the past, I wanted to work hard with him and wait until the economy was better before getting married. But time flies. I am now 30 years old and don’t want to wait any longer, so I took the initiative to propose marriage to him, although he was slightly He was hesitant, but he still agreed to my proposal."

As early as 2008, in the report "Analysis and Forecast of China's Social Situation in 2008" jointly released by the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences and the Social Science Literature Press. It has been pointed out that the number of registered marriages in China continues to decrease, the age of first marriage is significantly postponed, and nearly half of the "post-80s generation" admit that they are afraid of marriage. Nowadays, the "post-80s" generation has gradually come into existence. If men's 30 years old is still a good time, the number of 30 years old makes women panic.

Ms. Liu said that the scene when she just walked out of college was still vivid in her mind, and in the blink of an eye, she was also "running for her third year". Whether online or in work and life, the word "post-90s" is everywhere. Now that I am the "leftover", in order not to "suck" in my hands, I must take the initiative to propose to my boyfriend of two years.

During the interview, the author found that most of the women proposing marriage proposals are women born in the 1980s. They have accompanied their current boyfriends through several years of youth. They are convinced that the other half is the other half of their lives, and they also believe that the other half is the other half of their lives. Think the same as myself. My boyfriend has been reluctant to propose, and the lack of a house or a heavy mortgage is the reason. If I were young, I could wait a few years, but now I "can't afford to wait." Taking the initiative to propose marriage can not only relieve the tense nerves of the other party, but also provide A breathing space for each other's feelings. At the same time, women who take the initiative to propose marriage are more likely to succeed.

Some experts said that there are more only children among those born in the 1980s. Due to the pampering of their families, their psychological maturity is later than that of people of other age groups. At the same time, they are also affected by various anxieties caused by life pressure and work pressure. They develop a fear of marriage. Most men born in the 1980s suffer from the inability to provide each other with a loving nest and are ashamed to propose marriage. However, they are not really rejecting marriage, but are avoiding it. If a woman does not have too many financial requirements, men will happily establish a relationship with her. family.

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