In our around us, there are some women who work hard for their careers all day long, go out early and late, eat fast food at noon, step by step, mobile phone is not away from the ears, rare rare Have your own leisure. As a result, many busy women have succeeded in their careers but lost their love. Life is still boring. Bai Mei is the chairman of a toy company. Ten years ago, she was an introverted and shy college student, but now she has become a calm and calm entrepreneur with more than 800 employees and assets of more than 40 million yuan. But such a successful woman has suffered repeated setbacks in love, and she is still lingering on the doorstep of marriage even in her thirties. When Bai Mei took over the company from her father, she specially hired two male master's degree students from Shanghai with high salaries to serve as the company's general manager and deputy general manager respectively. While working hard together, Bai Mei and General Manager Qiang fell in love. But when discussing marriage, Qiang tactfully said that it was okay for two busy people to work hard together, but it was not appropriate to start a family. Qiang said that he and she were traveling all day long, either going abroad to inspect markets or negotiating business with clients. Where would they find the time to take care of their families and children after they got married?

After the relationship ended, the family introduced Mei to Wei, a civil servant with a free job, so that they could complement each other and take care of the family in the future. Both parties were quite satisfied when they met. But problems arose during the relationship. Wei knew that Mei was busy with work, so he always made phone calls in the dead of night, but he didn't know that during this time Mei was either busy with clients or thinking about major company issues. "Let's talk about it later!" Mei always answered Wei like this. Gradually, Wei began to stop calling Mei. At most, he only sent a text message to greet her. There is very little emotional communication between two people.

Age did not allow Mei to give up on this relationship. She realized the seriousness of the problem and began to take the time to call Wei. He finally relaxed his rigid feelings. Finally, it was time for the two elders to formally discuss the marriage. But on the day of the meeting, when Mei was about to get ready and set off, the ringtone on her cell phone rang at an inappropriate time. A big customer has come to the company, and there are some things that the general manager can’t decide on, so she’s waiting for her to make the decision.

The outcome of this meal can be imagined. Although Wei's parents didn't say anything, they could tell they were quite dissatisfied. After returning home, Mei's mother was also very annoyed: "You said that you are a girl, and you have to go out in the wind and rain all day long. What did you do in the end?"

Wei's attitude also changed completely after that dinner. The last words he said to Mei when they broke up were: "Your lover is not me, but your career."

Shanshan is a business manager of a life insurance company. She has been working hard in this industry for 10 years. In 1999, at the age of 31, she started working as an insurance agent and traveled between clients all day long. Often I have just visited the host’s house in the morning and then go to the west’s house in the afternoon. During this period, I continued to receive refusals from customers. Once she went to a small town for a "strange visit" and visited dozens of residents in one morning. She failed to negotiate an insurance policy and was eventually scolded as a thief. At that time, she really wanted to quit, but quitting would mean wasting all her efforts. She didn't want to give up. She knew that as long as she persisted, she would succeed. Her performance finally improved, and she climbed the ranks year after year, and was promoted to department manager, but she was even busier and more tired. The daily working hours are more than 15 hours. In addition to continuing to expand the customer base, he also needs to activate the team's combat effectiveness of more than 40 people every day to ensure that the overall performance of the team is among the best. Just when her career was looking bright, she vaguely felt that her happy marriage had become dim. She and her husband had fewer and fewer opportunities to communicate and common topics. There is no time to take care of the children, and the husband takes care of everything inside and outside. Because the work is too busy and people are tired, the life of husband and wife becomes more and more indifferent. After a period of "cold war", they broke up amicably.

It’s hard for a busy woman to find love. Although this statement is a bit absolute, it does show the side effects of the misalignment of the roles of "male protagonist outside and female protagonist internally". Excessive busyness is enough to consume all the fun, tenderness, beauty and energy of a woman. Moonlight strolls, love between children, fitness centers, beauty salons, self-driving tours, gatherings with friends... everything has become a dream. It's a luxury to do it occasionally. Love requires management, and family requires dedication. In addition to dedication, it also requires enough time. For women, it is difficult to equate love and career. However, women who have lost love should not forget to love themselves, and do not let themselves become a "prisoner" of their career forever.

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