In the past, I thought that if we wanted to live a long life as a couple, we should start from a young age and "save" our sex life. I didn't expect that this idea almost ruined the happiness of my husband and me throughout our lives. My husband and I are a married couple, and he is a whole lot older than me. When I first got married, my husband's sexual desire was extremely strong, which made me a little overwhelmed. Not only did he have to charge into battle at night, but he also sometimes didn't let go during the day. I called him a "pervert", but my husband said that it was because he loved me so much. I was young and beautiful, and it would be strange if I was not excited or impulsive with such a lovely wife every day! I often hear my sisters say: Men are all the same thing, they like the new and hate the old. No matter how outstanding a woman is, it doesn't take long for a man to get tired of her, so a man's love and passion often end in an anticlimax. But these words have no effect on my husband. He has always been excited about me, and his desire shows no sign of diminishing. I'm afraid that if this continues, my husband will lose his vitality. I love my husband, and it’s not a big deal if I can’t bear the torment. After all, I’m young, but I’m worried that my husband will collapse. My husband is older, so having such frequent and intense sex once or twice is fine, but if it goes on for a long time, will his body be able to handle it? My husband is much older than me, and he must have entered the aging period earlier than me, and I was still young at that time. , we still need sex, can my husband and I still have sex as we want? Will sexual disharmony affect the quality of life of a couple in the future? My marriage with my husband has been strongly opposed by many people, even my parents, and now I seemed to understand their unspoken concerns. I began to plan my sex life, limiting sex to once a day, or even several times, to less than twice a week, usually only once a week. My husband suddenly went from being wealthy to having to live frugally, and his reaction was extremely strong. At first he was coaxing me like a baby, trying to get me to change my mind. But when he saw that I was like an ancient well, he resorted to another trick: going on strike and making noise. My husband used to rush to do housework and take credit from me to please me, but now he says "NO" to all housework. Originally, I was the only one who had a tantrum at home, and he would always give in to me. Now, I give in to him every time, but I don't do this. My husband gradually calmed down, and I enlightened him: married life should be smooth and smooth. We can't just have fun all the time and consume all our energy. We have to think about tomorrow's happiness. My husband became obedient and strictly abided by the discipline I had set. I think that after recuperating like this, I will definitely improve the quality of every sexual life and fully experience and enjoy sexual happiness. After a long wait, my husband and I were very excited, as if we were waiting for a feast. Everything is ready and we are all set to get crazy. However, I found that my husband was gradually becoming "bad". He just had a close contact and he suddenly fell into a bad state. At first it looked majestic, but soon it turned into a little one, looking ashamed of itself. What became worse later was that he simply treated me with indifference and remained indifferent despite my best efforts! I secretly wondered if it was my strict management that frustrated my husband and made him stop loving me? But every time he would I tried very hard, but it was clearly beyond my ability. After this situation happened many times in a row, my husband became dejected. He told me in frustration: "It's over, it's over, I can't find the status quo I used to have!" I feel it, and even have some tendency to be frigid. In the past, my husband was always "obsessed" with me and would harass me at every turn, but now he always behaves like a gentleman who "sits calmly in his arms", like a pile of dry firewood that has been wet by the rain. What should I do? Can't even light it. I was confused. I wanted to save on sex. My original intention was to make the couple happy forever. Who knew that things would develop in the opposite direction? When I told my closest friend about my embarrassment and confusion, she Said: Sex is different from other things. Other things are that the more you use it, the less it will be. The more you use it, the more vigorous it will be. I am afraid that your "frugal sex" will chill your husband's heart and reduce his ability. After thinking about it, I think what my friend said makes sense. At the beginning of marriage, isn’t my husband always invincible? It seems it’s time to revise the plan. I said to my husband: "I want to rekindle your passion, let you get back to your old state, and regain your glory!" My husband knew that I was worried about him, and he himself also realized the seriousness of this problem, so he fully cooperated with me. action. But sometimes his body didn't even respond at all. It took us a long time to readjust our lives and awaken my husband's past memories. Fortunately, we can still find happiness after going through a detour, so I cherish what I have today even more.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ out that I can neither indulge nor over-restrain in married life, just let nature take its course. This article comes from adult.6kmall.com and is published by netizens. This site only quotes it for reference. 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