According to British media reports on the 15th, a British study shows that when a single woman meets a man for the first time, she will decide within 30 seconds whether the man meets her requirements and becomes her love partner. Therefore, when men meet for the first time, they should impress each other with interesting and weird questioning methods and master the secret of dating each other successfully.

Whiteman, a professor at the University of Herfordshire in the UK, conducted two studies. In the first test, he asked 100 singles aged 22 to 45 to participate in 10 rapid-matching trials to decide who they would like to date.

It was found that 45% of women could make a decision within 30 seconds whether they had been struck by Cupid's arrow, while men needed 90 seconds to make a decision.

In the experiment, a man and a woman each wanted to date each other again during 10 speed dates. Whiteman said the couple knew how to ask interesting and quirky questions. "Men ask each other which TV game show they want to be a contestant on, and women want to know their favorite pizza toppings," says Whiteman. Conversely, excessive flattery and self-aggrandizing clichés can lead to consequences, including "I have a PhD in Computer Science, my favorite place is where you live," etc., all turn off women.

In the second experiment, he selected 500 people to find the ideal partner for a 30-year-old man named Case. Case has to dine with four single ladies respectively. These 500 people can only predict Case's lover based on the photos and brief introductions of the four ladies.

Whiteman found that among the four, 26-year-old nurse Ray was the most popular, with an approval rating of 37%, but in the end Case chose Jane, who had an approval rating of only 23%. Case said: “I made my decision within minutes every time because it felt so natural when I talked to Jane, who kissed me on the cheek when we met, while the other three just shook my hand. ". It can be seen that natural conversation and additional physical contact increase mutual liking.

"Promising one's body" is a gynecological disease in women

It has been observed that at least half of women believe that as long as they give themselves up, they can get holy love or even marriage. This situation is more common among women who are fashionable and open in appearance but conservative in heart. This kind of thinking makes women often I can't wait for the excitement to subside before I confess.

Promising one's body is a gynecological disease, which can be cured as soon as possible.

My cousin is a fashionable girl who dresses fashionably and speaks and behaves well. She has recently found a happy boyfriend and makes love her daily bread. Our group of relatives and friends all believed that it was only a matter of time before she married her boyfriend. Unexpectedly, the two of them broke up.

My cousin asked me in confusion, do men today dare to do it or not? It turned out that my cousin went to bed with her boyfriend when they were deeply in love. After some lingering, the cousin asked half shyly and half sincerely: "I will be yours from now on. You have to be responsible for me. When will we get married?" "The boyfriend mumbled a few words and then ran away from the door, even turning off his cell phone. The cousin was so angry that she proposed to break up.

I deeply sympathize with my cousin's experience, but even though I sympathize with her, there are a few things I don't want to say. According to my observation, at least half of the women believe that as long as they surrender themselves, they can get holy love or even marriage in exchange. This situation is more common among women who are fashionable and open in appearance but reserved and conservative in heart.

This kind of thinking makes women often tell them frankly before the love subsides, as if they are afraid that men will not admit it when they put on their clothes. As for the man, he was still regurgitating the aftertaste of the physical feast just now. The woman's questioning was like a ladle of ice water pouring down his hot forehead. His instinctive reaction was: She is doing business with me, and she is trying to use her body to trap me!

Many men are very dissatisfied with women's commitment to each other: "Why should the things you love and I want turn into aggressive and unequal exchanges?"

"I think men contribute more than women in this kind of thing, so it's the man who suffers the loss!" That's why no man chases the woman afterward, so he must be responsible.

Ultimately, this is a matter of understanding who slept with whom. Women always assume that they have been slept with with a weak attitude, and rarely enjoy it with the attitude of being slept with. Before a woman learns to take responsibility for her own body, if she wants to talk about emotional equality, she is talking to herself, and if she wants to exchange her body for a man's commitment, she is just talking in a dream.

Promising someone with your body, or "strengthening" yourself with your body, is itself a transactional attitude under the guise of love. How can you expect a good look from a man? If a woman takes the lead in setting the level and tone of love in such a despicable manner, she cannot simply blame the man for his disrespect for you and his toying with love.

Between men and women, being too casual is not worth promoting, but thinking that is too conservative must evolve. A mature woman must first know how to be responsible for her own body, instead of using her body as a threat.

A man who can grow old with you is definitely not an opportunist who is greedy for physical pleasure. His commitment and responsibility to you must be voluntary. And if a woman forces a marriage between the beds and has to make a commitment, not to mention being looked down upon by men, it is disrespectful to herself and will only lead to self-humiliation.

The pace of society is too fast, the pressure of life is too high, and women's illnesses are already annoying enough, so don't add the mental and gynecological diseases of committing suicide to torture the body and mind. If you don't want to feel resentful afterwards, you can tell him clearly before exposing your body: "Don't go to my bed until you marry me!"

Pregnancy is a gynecological disease. This disease is cured early and will be cured later. If it is not cured, it will be a disaster. You make the decision about your body, but never let your body make the decision about your happiness!