Is it possible that the sharing of housework is different because of different chromosomes? In the animal kingdom, there are not many examples of "male" lordships. Kangaroo fathers also take on the important task of raising children.

Recently, Xiaoji conducted a small investigation on "who does housework". More than 50% of the men interviewed answered: "That is a woman's job," and more than 30% did a little bit. Some of the answers were that all housework is included, such as washing vegetables and cooking, washing and mopping the floor, and taking care of children. They have comprehensive skills and technical skills. Superb. One man interviewed jokingly said that modern wives have long been upgraded to the "idle wife and mother" type. It seems that liberating oneself from the heavy housework is one of the "husband-control skills" that post-80s wives must learn.

Good men need to be cultivated

During the summer vacation, other colleagues were traveling to visit relatives, but Teacher Wu became a free domestic worker. In fact, her husband usually doesn't do housework, and claims that "men take care of the outside and women take care of the house" every day. However, she has no time to think about it when she is at work. Now she regrets that she should not have married a Xiamen man in the first place. She envied her classmate Ms. Chen. Apart from eating and sleeping, she also did shopping, watching TV, and doing beauty treatments. She was a typical "idle" wife and "exerted" mother. Ms. Chen said that although her husband is from Fuzhou and is better at housework, good men must be cultivated.

Miss Chen said that before getting married, she must let him understand that his wife is there to feel sorry for her, not to be married back home as a mother-in-law. I usually take my husband to the homes of friends who are model husbands to "brainwash" him and tell him that what is popular now is a good family man. At the same time, you have to actively participate, but you have to do worse than him, so that he can feel where his talents lie. Over time, the husband will not let his wife do the dishes and laundry because the dishwashing detergent and washing powder hurt his hands, and he will take the initiative to cook because the oil fume is not good for the skin.

In order to witness Ms. Chen’s educational achievements, Teacher Wu visited Ms. Chen’s home on weekends. The husband was playing on the computer. Ms. Chen stepped forward and pressed his shoulders. Wipe the dust." Sure enough, Miss Chen's husband took the rag. Miss Chen said: "Give him a little sunshine and he will shine, and it should be widely publicized, so that he will take care of his glorious image."

After eating the delicious lunch cooked by Miss Chen's model husband, Chen The young lady and Teacher Wu happily went to the beauty salon in the community for care.

Tip of "free time" and "drying": I often hear sisters complain that good husbands are in other people's homes. In fact, as long as you put your heart into it, you can cultivate a good husband. But you must not demonstrate this kind of training yourself, otherwise he will not be able to learn it and he will not be able to get rid of it. It doesn't matter if your husbands don't do well. Whoever is born is Einstein. Experience always takes time to accumulate. As long as you guide well, the "students" will do well.

Men and women can work together without getting tired

Once upon a time, men doing housework became the indicator of family happiness. Ms. Cai believes that "happiness" means a stable job, a warm family, and a husband who can help with housework.

Two years ago, when Mrs. Cai and her husband entered the marriage castle, they agreed that they would share the housework in the future, and her husband was very happy. Coincidentally, they each have their own hobbies in housework. The wife likes to wash dishes, the husband likes to mop the floor, the husband likes to hang clothes, and the wife likes to fold quilts. Their family life is therefore more harmonious. Mrs. Cai said that doing housework together as a couple is more meaningful than doing it alone as a housewife. They can listen to music while doing it, or exchange views on something and feel the warmth and happiness of the family. What's more important is that doing housework together can improve efficiency and use time in more worthwhile areas. For example, after dinner, one person washes the dishes and the other picks up the trash. This saves half of the time other housewives spend doing housework after dinner to go for a walk, watch a movie, or go to the supermarket.

Mr. Cai said that the main reason why men are unwilling to do housework is because of face, which is the so-called machismo. Married life is a matter of two people. Since two people decide to be together, all the joy, anger, sorrow and joy in life should be shared by the two. If two people are enjoying delicious food together, the tedious process from buying food to cooking, and even washing the dishes and taking out the trash afterward... has to be borne by one person. Obviously, this is quite unfair, and People don’t feel very comfortable either. There are always things going on in a family, so treat housework as a meaningful labor and an alternative experience in life.

"Leisure" and "drying" skills: In modern society, women bear no less pressure from life and work than men. Moreover, family life should not be passed off, but should be shared. Many men say that housework is for women, but that is just an excuse and disrespectful to women. If we want equality, let's do it together, and we won't say who bullies whom.

The economic base determines the superstructure

"Foreign trade has been difficult recently, so I have stopped working and gone home to be a househusband." As soon as he sat down, Mr. Hong said mockingly: " The wife is the leader, she can do whatever she wants, and she can buy whatever she likes. "

In fact, that is not the case. Mrs. Hong said that their family is very equal, and whoever has the higher monthly income will determine it. Just enjoy VIP treatment, you can sit on the sofa and command, or have fun with the remote control. The stock market was volatile in the past two months. Mr. Hong bought a stock that was rated as a "demon stock" by industry insiders and suffered huge losses. In order to recover the losses, he asked his wife for a "loan". Mrs. Hong’s fund is doing well. Because of improper investment, which caused losses to the family property and postponed childcare plans, Mr. Hong felt very guilty and took the initiative to take on most of the housework. I get up early to make a nutritious breakfast for my wife. After get off work, I go home to buy groceries, cook and wash the dishes. When I’m at home on weekends, mopping the floor and cleaning the windows is indispensable.

Even without the stock market turmoil, Mrs. Hong said their housework is measured using economic leverage. Because Mrs. Hong works in an administrative job and has to clock in and out, time is tight. And he is a businessman. When there is business, he basically travels away. Naturally, his wife takes care of the home work. If there is little business, he reports to the company in the morning and goes home, so he has relatively free time. If you don’t have a business, of course you will be responsible for housework.

"The bankbooks at home are all in the hands of my wife. It is a man's happiness to work for his wife and for the family," Mr. Hong said jokingly.

"Free" and "Handling" "Tips: When you get home from get off work every day, you can have a sip of hot tea and eat delicious meals. This is the greatest happiness for a working woman. Of course, it is not a bad idea to reflect your work achievements in your family status. This can promote each other and strive for an early success. Pay off the mortgage. There is another meaning: labor is the most glorious, whether it is in the workplace or at home, it is for the family!

This article comes from adult.6kmall.com and is published by netizens. This site only quotes it for reference. It does not mean that this site agrees with the views of the article. If you believe that the content and intellectual property rights of this article infringe upon your interests, please contact us.