If you don’t know how to cook, just don’t cook. No matter how late it is, you have to wait for the other party to do it. If you really can’t wait for your return, you will go out to the restaurant. If there is a circuit failure, sewer blockage, electrical appliance damage, etc., you have no choice but to wait for the other party to come. To solve this problem that should make people worry...

Husbands and wives live in the same room, share the same bed, and share the same pot. As long as one party has it, the other party is indispensable, so some people have Rely on what the other person thinks. But is this kind of dependence reliable?

If you don’t know how to cook, just don’t do it. No matter how late it is, you have to wait for the other party to do it. If you really can’t wait, you go out to the restaurant; circuit failure, sewer blockage, electrical appliances Damage, etc., there is nothing you can do, just wait for the other party to deal with this matter that should make people worry. Like this, there must be many people who have the idea of ​​being supported by the other party even if the sky falls. However, couples should not be overly dependent. As married people, marriage cannot cause them to lose their independent personality. Both men and women must be strong and be prepared to withstand hardships and hardships. For a family to remain stable, it requires joint efforts, courage and strength from both parties.

A couple has been married for a year, loving and harmonious. The couple is immersed in their world. Every day is full of sunshine, and the stormy days seem to be far away. Suddenly one day, the man had an affair, there was no harmony between them, and the shadow was engraved on her body like a scar. Suddenly the bright sunshine fell into the dark night. In the end, the couple couldn't live together anymore, and Lao Yan separated. Their harmonious days soon became a memory, forever engraved in their life history and gone with the wind. From this point of view, this excessive dependence stems from excessive trust in the other party.

"Don't trust anyone." Although this sentence is a bit biased, as an aphorism, it often warns people that it is necessary to maintain appropriate vigilance. No matter how smart a person is, there are times when he is confused and makes impulsive mistakes; no matter how perfect a person is, he still has some bad qualities, especially as a temperamental person, even we cannot trust ourselves when it comes to emotions. We are in certain situations. Before we come, we can't be sure that we will still do so well in that situation in the future; when we laugh at others' ignorance, we may also have moments in the future when others laugh at us. If we cannot be very confident in ourselves, then we cannot have too much trust in our spouse when it comes to marriage, and the emotional foundation of this dependence is not so solid and reliable.

If you don’t rely too much, you will leave yourself a way out. When it is regarded as the creed of marriage not to rely too much on each other, both husband and wife will learn to do housework together, learn to raise children together, and handle various affairs together, so that when the marriage encounters unexpected changes, even without the cooperation of the other party, they can continue to work together. He can also be independent and cope with things with ease, so that the family can continue smoothly.

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