"When Chinese parents can put a condom in the schoolbag of their fifteen or sixteen-year-old children like foreign countries, will China truly enter an era of sexual civilization." Yesterday, the Sixth National Cultural At the "Report on Sex Education for Middle School Students", one of the festival's series of activities, was held at Nanwu Middle School in Guangzhou, Duan Jianhua, deputy director of the Guangzhou Family Planning Bureau, made shocking remarks. The theme of the seminar was "Discussing with parents their children's views on sex, love, and life." Many parents of junior high school students raised their hands to ask questions, asking experts for advice on how to talk about sex with children born in the 1990s. The scene was heated. ("Nanfang Daily" November 8)

In "my country, currently 10 million women have abortions every year, of which a quarter are under the age of 18, which means there are as many as 2.5 million." In the face of a group of shocking data, Director Duan's painstaking "Practical Guide" is undeniable a trick for middle school students to prevent sexually transmitted diseases and contraception.

But given China’s current national conditions, how many parents are willing to “integrate with international standards” in this way? Even if this is done, who can guarantee that it will not cause any complications? A Chinese parent stuffed condoms into the schoolbag of his middle school son with breakfast in the morning. This scene is really unimaginable.

The reality that needs to be faced is that China’s sexual concept education lags far behind some developed countries abroad. Under the background that the entire social mechanism is not perfect and sound, we “only take one scoop” "Isn't the reference and imitation of others a bit "imitation"?

Chinese families are generally traditional and conservative. Many parents are firmly opposed to middle school students even falling in love. If you want them to give condoms to their children, it is simply a fantasy. If parents really do this, wouldn't it seem to the children to be a tacit approval and indirect encouragement of their sexual behavior? Then they will never talk about sexual changes in the future, because "practice" is more secure.

And I don’t know if Director Duan has considered it. According to the previous data, three-quarters of those over 18 years old have abortions, that is, as many as 7.5 million. Among them, condoms or abortions are used. The proportion of safety measures should be very high. There are many couples who are even married. Why would they choose abortion? Apparently the baby in her belly was not part of the plan.

Looking back at these middle school students, even if the parents boldly put condoms in their children's schoolbags (I guess this requires a lot of courage), wouldn't "accidents" happen to them? Even adults can use contraceptive measures incorrectly, let alone children who are panicked and have little experience and experience. It feels like an insurance, but in fact it turns into a trap. Who will be responsible for these injured children?

For the frequent abortions among middle school students, "lack of sex education" has always been the culprit, but the problem is that our educators are still wandering on the outer edge of education. On the one hand, there is a serious lack of sex education, and on the other hand, parents are obsessed with giving condoms to their children. When can our experts lower their profile and actually do some practical sex education for children?

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