The wanderer between love and sex

Fu Zhenting is a 35-year-old real estate company CEO

Starting a business at the age of 25, relying on a disgraceful debut history, he later became a He started a family and established his current real estate company. In the industry, the aura of attention has made me stand out, and I frequently appear in the media and grand occasions. But in private, who knows the heart of a 35-year-old man in his prime? When I was young, I had no money, only youth and a heart unwilling to be mediocre. If you fall in love with a girl, you should be brave enough to chase her, and you won’t give up until you get her.

Perhaps it is because of my persistence and courage that most of the girls around me are captured by me and appreciate my energy. After my career started to improve, I started to become more critical and critical when choosing women. A woman who matches a good man should come from a well-known family, be stylish, tasteful, connotative, and well-educated. She can increase the man's worth and open up various channels for him. Later, I met Yaxuan. Marriage comes naturally. Everything seemed flawless. But Yaxuan's frigidity and mysophobia cast a veil over our sex life. Yaxuan was also in pain. Love each other, but cannot be in harmony. Rather than both of you suffering, it's better to let love have a way out. Yaxuan and I broke up peacefully after two years of marriage.

The short marriage life has been like a screen in my heart since then, blocking out women who want to come in. In my opinion at that time, if there was sexual disharmony, the relationship between two people would not be happy. In a perfect family, sex should take precedence over finances and be a strong guarantee of quality of life. So, I vowed to find the perfect woman who would be in perfect harmony with me physically and mentally. Every woman who comes close to me becomes a reference for Yaxuan. They have beautiful appearance, eloquent wit, and good calculations, but they do not have the characteristics of Yaxuan, pure jade and ice, and indifferent to fame and fortune. In the indulgence of my body, I experienced the ultimate physical happiness of being a man. But after the passion, the indulgence without love in the heart is more like an erotic game. There is only a beginning, no end, and no fixed heroine. It is blank and blank, and tastes like nothing. The loneliness and melancholy in my heart are a hundred times, a thousand times worse than before. For the woman who has been struggling to take over the position of the hostess of Yaxuan, a check can bring a happy ending.

Long-term indulgence caused my body to send out alarm signals. I became neurasthenic, weak, sweating...I was often unable to do my best in bed. "Am I still a man?" The contemptuous looks from those women inadvertently brought my psychological defense to the verge of collapse. I was eager to prove that I was still strong, just like I was at the peak of my career. This goes back and forth, forming a vicious cycle, and self-esteem and self-confidence are greatly frustrated. Experimenting with sex made me appreciate what a real man is, and it also made me indulge in excess, thinking that my youth was limitless and that I could have sex every night. Trial sex is a ridiculous game. People who can afford it enjoy it endlessly and even enjoy it; people who can't afford it will eventually lose themselves because of trial sex and just find high-sounding excuses to support their infatuation again and again. . Now, I miss my dull, lack of passion marriage with Yaxuan even more. Experimenting with sex did not make me live a happier life, but instead made my originally plump heart full of holes and vulnerable.

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Eager for the next one to be better

Yang Yang, 28 years old, model in advertising agency

When I met Xiaoqiang, I had just started modeling. In this cultural company with more than thirty people, my business was not very good, so the company arranged for Xiaoqiang, a top business person, to coach me. Although we work together, we don't talk much. That day, he helped me practice Qigong, but my leg was accidentally strained.

He took my feet into his arms and gently massaged them. After that, he quickly went to the drugstore to buy safflower oil and massaged them for me. Looking at his actions, I was extremely moved. After more contact, we were deeply attracted to each other...

When winter came, Xiaoqiang said to me, "Yang Yang, would you like to live at my place?" Although I am not a conservative Woman, but I am still hesitant and unwilling to surrender myself completely. Xiaoqiang saw my hesitation and said, "We can give it a try. If it doesn't suit us, we'll end it." So, on that drizzly afternoon, Xiaoqiang moved my suitcase into his dormitory.

That night, Xiaoqiang lit 99 red candles in the hut, and the house was immediately filled with a romantic and warm atmosphere. My desire was also ignited by Xiaoqiang. When he gently took off the last piece of clothing on my body, I was so excited that I couldn't control myself...but our sex was not perfect, and Xiaoqiang was done quickly. When I looked at him with doubts, he said that due to long-term masturbation, he could no longer control the rhythm of his sexual desire. We enter the world of men and women with a romantic mood, but when faced with this embarrassment, we are all disappointed.

In order to improve this situation, I tried not to wear underwear, and then secretly sent a text message to Xiaoqiang when I was at work, telling him that my underwear was missing, and also told him that there was nothing under my skirt. Nothing to wear... But no matter how hard I try, Xiaoqiang still makes it quick when having sex.

Although we love each other deeply, we cannot integrate into each other's lives because of sex. I don't want to bury myself just like that. In the painful entanglement, we become more and more indifferent day by day. When spring came, I moved out from Xiaoqiang’s house.

In order to live a sexual life that satisfies me, I keep trying out sex with some men. During this period, I also met relatively harmonious sexual partners, but I always felt that the next one would be better, so I kept looking and trying. Suddenly one day, I found that my youth had also disappeared in this experimental life...

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After the experimental life , I chose divorce

Leilei, a 25-year-old company clerk

Deng Jie, who has been in love for three years, said to me, "Leilei, wait for me. I will marry you after I break out of the world." I'm waiting. Waiting, but waiting for the news that he was getting married in a foreign land. At the age of 24, I decided to marry myself to a man who had been pursuing me for many years.

However, my sex life with my husband has always left me unsatisfied. Every time when he was full of passion, I didn't feel anything at all; and when I wanted it, he was either busy or in a hurry.

In order to find my sexual happiness, I began to experiment with other men behind my husband’s back. Although cheating is the most exciting thing, this kind of sex life is still far from what I want. Gradually, I became anxious.

One day, classmate Li Yang’s company opened, and old classmates also took the opportunity to get together. When I saw Deng Jie, my mind went blank. This man is as upright and elegant as before, but time has made him more stable and mature. We left the crowd and headed towards the old street. The coffee shop that used to be there is no longer there, and has been replaced by an elegant small building with a leisure teahouse on the ground floor. We chose the table closest to the window, and Deng Jie thoughtfully pulled out a chair for me, put away my bag, and ordered a cup of Cordon Bleu and a cup of lemon tea. My eyes began to mist. The same elegant shop, the same flowing music, the same delicious lemon tea, but two different people.

"Didn't your wife come with you?" I asked. But he smiled gently and said, "We are divorced." "I'm sorry, I shouldn't ask." "No! It's me who should say I'm sorry. Lei Lei, it's me who has hurt you. But you know, in this society, , what is it like to be a man with nothing. She is a local, and her father values ​​me very much. Besides, I really needed help at that time, but I shouldn’t have left you anyway.”

I silently looked at the man in front of me, the man I had loved, hated, and longed for both in and out of my dreams. I thought that time would seal the past, and I thought that I could slowly forget him, but God designed our reunion today. Tears flowed down so unsatisfactorily...

That night, he took me to the hotel. On that large Simmons bed, we were like two fish falling into the sea, so hearty and passionate... It was the first time in my life that I knew that there was such a beautiful sex between men and women. When we were bathing wetly in the water, I hugged him tightly and said in his ear again and again, "I want a divorce and I want to marry you. Are you still willing to marry me?" Deng Jie pressed. He hugged me tightly and said, "Life and death will never separate us."

The next day, I wrote the divorce agreement, and my husband looked at me inexplicably. I told him my past and present without reservation. My husband knew that I had decided to leave, so he had no choice but to agree to divorce.

Now, Deng Jie and I live very well. Due to the high degree of harmony in my sex life, I have never gone out to try sex again. I feel that my life is really happy now.

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Who started the trend of experimenting with sex

Nature cleverly set up sex when creating living organisms. In order for the species to be actively and consciously inherited in the world, it has well decorated sex with reproduction as its main function. This kind of decoration is the intense pleasure experience of the body caused by sex. In the process of the organism's continuous pursuit of this pleasure, sexual behavior is also strengthened and passed down as an instinct. This is the original formation of sex. The difference between human sexual behavior and other living organisms is that it incorporates many spiritual elements. With the continuous development of socialization level, the influence of these mental factors on people's sexual behavior will become more and more profound.

Sex is the most private but most common physiological activity of human beings. People have gone from talking about sex to openly experimenting with sex. This kind of privacy and ordinary sex are integrated together, forming a special sexual era in today's society. To sum up, the emergence of trial sex should be promoted by the following factors.

First of all, it is the result of social development. Since ancient times, human beings' understanding of sex has been intertwined with the development of social culture. In today's society, some safe and effective contraceptive measures have greatly promoted people's liberation in sexual attitudes. Young people are no longer shy about sexual expression and have a clearer attitude. These ultimately become the social motivations that push them to change their sexual behaviors.

Secondly, stress is the hidden cause of trial sex. Due to the accelerated pace of society, people need to reduce the heavy burden on their hearts and pursue a complete relaxation during intense work. The sense of oppression that sex brings to people under traditional concepts seems to be similar to the pressure in life.

The effective release of sexual energy is often entangled with stress relief, becoming an effective way to reduce stress. . However, this kind of sexual behavior is fundamentally different from sex caused by love.

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