Introduction: Due to the different physiological structures of men and women, the sexual desire development curves of men and women are very different. This is why it is easy to cause objective factors of sexual frigidity. Understanding this time difference plays an important role in a harmonious couple's life.

In life, young men complain that women are "too cold and lack passion"; young women in turn complain that men "only care about themselves and do not understand gentleness".

But among couples over the age of 35, the situation begins to be reversed. Women complain that men "lack sexual desire and are too cold." This is a common phenomenon of sexual interchange in middle age. Specifically manifested in the following aspects:

① Intensity of sexual desire In traditional society, women are often "sexually blind" when they are girls. Therefore, it must take a long time after marriage to gradually adapt and enjoy it. When it comes to sex, you often have to wait until you are over 30 years old to have enough time, energy and desire to invest in it. In addition, they have some experience in sexual life, so their natural sexual desire, which has been suppressed by society and culture for a long time, naturally comes out.

Men are just the opposite. Their sexual performance peaks when they are young and generally begins to decline after the age of 35. And the younger the "steel man" is, the more powerless he will feel in middle age when faced with women whose sexual desire is as strong as their "second spring."

② Sexually Sensitive Zones on the Body Surface When young, men have almost only one sexual sensitive zone, which is the penis, especially the coronal sulcus behind the glans. Young women, on the other hand, have erogenous zones almost all over their bodies. Even if they do not touch their external genitalia, they can still show strong sexual reactions and orgasms. This is a major difference between men and women.

As men age, their physical strength and sexual desire gradually decrease, and their penis and glans become less and less sensitive. Therefore, they often appear lazy and reluctant in sexual life. Over time, their erogenous zones gradually spread from the center (penis) to the periphery, and slowly spread throughout the body. They also become more and more eager for full, delicate and lasting caress.

On the contrary, for women after middle age, as the spirit and body are completely and gradually loosened, the time they need to prepare before sexual intercourse is getting shorter and shorter, and they need more and more attention during sexual intercourse. Direct and strong sexual stimulation. It turns out that the sexually sensitive areas all over the body are becoming more and more concentrated toward the "center", so that if strong stimulation is not directly applied to the center point, it will be difficult for them to achieve orgasm.

③ Concept of sex There are no more than five types of relationships between human sex and love: sex but no love, sex first and then love, sex and love synchronized, love first and then sex, love but no sex . The younger the man, the more he tends to the former ones, while the younger the woman, the more he tends to the latter.

After middle age, men begin to pursue "getting to know each other, being related and dependent on each other." Similarly, middle-aged women begin to view sex and love together, and they also begin to boldly make sexual demands to their husbands.

Understanding these sexual changes between men and women after middle age will obviously help to make the life of a couple more satisfying and satisfying.

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