Where do “money worshipers” come from?

What makes money surpass other conditions such as character, sense of responsibility, ambition, etc., and become an important criterion for money worshipers to choose their spouse? In this regard, emotional experts from the domestic serious dating website Century Jiayuan believe that high housing prices, heavy life pressure, parents' expectations that their daughters marry a rich man, and comparisons among friends of the same age and similar conditions, etc., will all lead to the phenomenon of money-worshiping girls. 's appearance.

In the survey, some people lamented, "It's too realistic. Her views and pursuits are the dreams of most of us women." But there are also many pure female high school students who are pursuing true love as always. Saying, "Love is selfless. What a gold-worshiping girl loses is her foundation, and what she gains is endless greed..."

Should a money-worshiping girl get true love?

The positive view: All kinds of people are eligible for happiness

At a glance - Money-worshiping women have the ideals and goals of money-worshiping. It is just an idea and concept. Like many people may say, since you are unable to give, why blame. There are still good girls among the money-worshiping girls, maybe because of the things they encountered and experienced during their life journey. So I wish all women to find their own happiness.

Lonely World - A girl is born with beauty. This is her natural capital, so she has the qualifications to be proud and worship money. She has neither stolen nor robbed, and has not broken the law? Why don't you deserve true love?

Morning Dew - Everyone deserves true love, and true love is not Cinderella’s exclusive right. I am not a money digger, but I think everyone yearns for a better life for themselves.

Liangliang——True love cannot be measured by money. Who doesn't like RMB? As long as she is a filial, responsible, and loving person, she is qualified for true love.

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Opposite view: A marriage based on money is immoral

The sun always shines after the storm - a marriage that is not based on feelings is ultimately immoral. When a woman compares herself to a mansion and a fancy car. Will anyone really love her? When people are equated with money, what is the difference between them and commodities?

Van Gogh’s left ear: Money worship is just a concept of money and has nothing to do with happiness. Don't tarnish your beautiful love and life with other people's dirty things. The life that belongs to you cannot run away.

Gemini - If you don’t fall in love with love as the first purpose, you will naturally not get love, nor should you get love. Some people think that their worship of money is a manifestation of their straightforwardness and true nature. Wouldn't it be more straightforward if they digitize money and physical affection and list how much money can buy them.

The heartbeat only lasts for a moment - not everything can be bought with money. There is not much happiness in life. Rather than crying in a BMW, I would rather laugh on the back of a bicycle. Not being hypocritical, just trying to be kind to myself.

Expert Tips

Be kind to yourself and don’t sacrifice true love for material things

In the PK between money-worshiping girls and innocent girls launched on the Internet, the degree of pursuit of material things by both parties has become a key factor. Should women who worship money be harshly criticized? Should those who advocate a wealthy material life lose their qualifications for true love?

In this regard, Gong Haiyan, the number one matchmaker on the Internet, Xiao Longnv, believes that in real society, there is no need to be too critical of money-worshiping women. After all, lifestyles and love concepts are different, and the pursuit of material enjoyment is also a personal right. However, material is not the necessary basis for happiness, just like no amount of money can buy happiness. Marriage is not a transaction, love is not a commodity and cannot be sold at a price. A marriage based only on money is not only a kind of harm and deception to the other party, but also a sign of irresponsibility for the money-worshiping girl herself. Such a marriage is more likely to break than a natural marriage between two people who are in love. The so-called happiness has become an illusion.

"Comparedly speaking, it is easier to obtain happiness by being a materialist who advocates spirituality. You do not sacrifice true love for material things, but work hand in hand with the person you love for richer material conditions in the future." Gong Haiyan said. Treat your love and marriage cautiously and seriously, avoid blind impulse, and at the same time treat yourself well and protect yourself.

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