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Sexy is not a proper noun for women. Men are also sexy, but men’s sexiness is less of a topic of discussion. This is not because People who discuss sexiness are all men, so we can only talk about women. This is because men are less able to hide their bodies and minds, so sexiness is weaker in comparison. Many people are not aware of this key point, so there are many specious misunderstandings when talking about women's sexiness.

These misunderstandings are:

(1) Thinking that plumpness means sexy

Not only men have this misunderstanding, but women themselves often talk about breasts and body measurements. Hence the terms "meat bomb", "sensual" and "full of sexiness". Marilyn Monroe, Brigitte Bardot, Jane Russell in the West, and Lu Xiaofen and Yang Huishan in the East were also offered sexy throne. In fact, men know exactly how sexy and attractive Marilyn Monroe or Brigitte Bardot is. Therefore, the image of the so-called "fire-breathing girl" is probably the result of the film studio's propaganda and the mass media's heckles.

Of course, plumpness is also one of the factors of sexy, but plumpness does not necessarily mean sexy, and there is a limit to "meaty". Exceeding this limit will have the opposite effect and reduce the degree of sexy. Therefore, it makes sense for girls to be afraid of obesity and go on a diet desperately.

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(2) Thinking that exposure means sexy

This is a continuation of the misunderstanding that "fullness means sexy". In fact, revealing clothing can stifle imagination and destroy the mysterious beauty. It is unbelievable to say that it can increase sex appeal. The reason why men's sexiness is not worth talking about is because men can run on the road shirtless, wearing shorts, and bare hairy legs. If men also deliberately hide the beauty of strong muscles, it may also become a sexy topic for women to talk about.

After the opening up of the times, clothing became more and more revealing. Although women all over the street seemed to be exhibitionists and their clothes became more and more revealing, they gave people an increasingly sexy feeling. Thin, visible exposure is not sexy.

The sexy mentioned above is actually just the static part. The production of sexy requires not only static conditions, but also dynamic expression to form a charming sexy.

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So every move of the hand, every move, the movement of the eyes, and the look between the eyes can create sexy. Sexiness is created in very subtle dynamics. For women in the new era, it is inevitable that they will have the question "What is the importance of sex appeal? Do we still need to rely on sex appeal to attract or please men?" Of course, these women in the new era do not need to use sex appeal to please men, even if they do. , and it is only necessary for certain men.

But sexiness does not only have the function of pleasing the opposite sex, because both the performance side and the feeling side are innate instincts. People don’t have to deliberately create sexiness, nor do they have to deliberately kill sexiness. If you let nature take its course, you can enjoy yourself in the subtle feelings and at the same time give people the pleasure of appreciation.

Excessive reliance on the charm of "sex" as a woman's "capital", or excessive hatred of "sex" and thinking that it is a dirty thing, are both outdated concepts. Women in the new era should calmly accept that "sex" is a part of life, and with a relaxed and humorous attitude, jump away and look down on sex from a higher place - other people's sex, and their own sex. Then put sex in an appropriate position, handle it with an objective attitude, talk about it with humor, and engage in sex-related behaviors with prudence.