Is it women’s fault that men are having affairs?
When I was small, I often heard people say that a man's heart, a man stained with flowers everywhere, a man was outsourcing "two milk", even "three milk", "four milk". Although I was also a little boy at that time, subconsciously I didn't have a good memory of grown men. Men are a group of masculine animals who easily play with women's emotions.
However, as I grew up and gained more experience, I gained new views and understanding of men. Although a man is romantic, he cannot be romantic without a woman's "active cooperation."
To some extent, men's romanticism is the result of women's indulgence, the result of women's fickleness, and the result of women being easily emotional but not paying attention to feelings. Assuming that every woman is loyal to her husband or boyfriend, the chances of other men wanting to have an affair will be greatly reduced. It is one-sided and superficial to say that men are flirtatious. In fact, it is women who are made of fickle water that provide men with opportunities to be flirtatious. It is women who make men become so passionate, but women in turn blame men for being flirtatious, and men also blame men for being flirtatious. The shameless excuse of "people don't spend time in romance" is used as a guise to cover up their wolfish ambitions, but they don't know the real reason why they become romantic.
Everyone has a love for beauty. I saw those women with beautiful flowers and bright eyes on the street. If a man is not lustful and careless, he is a disgrace to his own eyes, to the gift of the Creator, and to all the women in the world who love beauty.
Bo Yang once lamented in his collection of essays "Yi Meng Gossip": "Girls and young women dress themselves up to be radiant and dazzling. Isn't it just for men to see? Women want to Calling the man who stares at him a pervert! But if you have no color in your heart and don’t look sideways, women will definitely not be able to stand it.” On the surface, women admire Liu Xiahui’s calm attitude, but they don’t like him mentally. Women also have strong desires, but they are just better at concealing them than men. Men with normal desires will naturally have wild imaginations when they see beautiful women. Especially those men who come from unhappy marriages and families need to find comfort and emotional sustenance in other women. Women also like men’s attentiveness and skills, but whether they care about the man Yu Zhenxin didn't care. Because in women's short-circuited and short-sighted eyes, they often regard men's diligence and skills as true love. Their warm and impressionable hearts easily accept men's skills and attentiveness, while ignoring the most essential things in men. This is a woman's tragedy.
Some men will tell women before they have sex that they already have a wife, but the person they love most now is you. Then he said a lot of disgusting things. These words are quite questionable. Women are often deceived by such lies that seem sincere but are actually false, and lose their limited ability to judge, and naively believe that a man will divorce his original wife for himself.
But things are far from as simple as women think. Do you think divorce is that easy? Can you move the emotional weight accumulated over the years whenever you want? Unless the man has absolute control over the family, the wife is completely in a passive state of acceptance. However, there are too few such situations and there are too few such men, so there are more women who are deceived and deceived. Men are rational animals. Out of self-interest, they will not be stupid enough to abandon their wives and children unless absolutely necessary.
If he had married his wife out of love, he would not have fallen in love with another woman so easily. Most of the time, he's just motivated by sexual urges. Men will not tell women about their desires. The stronger the desire of a man and the more he wants to possess a woman, the more he will say to the woman: "I love you, I love you, I - love - you!"
In short, women are prone to feelings but do not pay attention to feelings, which provides a condition for men to be more carefree. Therefore, many times, it is not men who are carefree, but women who make men become carefree. It is women who make men become so passionate. Based on the above, I have come to a conclusion: for those who love freely, the one who suffers is often a man; for those who engage in extramarital affairs, the one who suffers is usually a woman. The reason is exactly what this article explains.
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