Is it the woman's fault that a man betrays his heart?
In this modern society where new love is changing with each passing day, looking back at Chen Shimei, she is really more unfair than Dou E. "One is a talented new science champion, and the other is an illiterate country woman. Their social status, cultural background, personal accomplishments, etc., are completely separated by a chasm. They barely live together, and neither of them is happy.
< p> "The so-called forceful relationship is not sweet, and if you don't love it, you don't love it anymore. There is really no point in continuing to be entangled. It is better to get together and break up, end the unhappy marriage, and start their happy lives again." This is certainly a rhetoric. This is the defense statement of the original Chen Shimei, and it is also the same and familiar lines used by the new version of Chen Shimei who have abandoned the dregs after becoming famous.It seems that the fault lies with Qin Xianglian. She knew that there was an irreparable distance in the marriage but still insisted on insisting on it. In the end, her parents-in-law lost their children, their children lost their father, and she lost her husband. Such a fateful ending would be too tragic! If Chen Qin is willing to understand the current situation, accept a large amount of settlement allowance, raise two children independently, and be filial to his parents-in-law, one will suffer and four will be happy, the ending is obviously not the worst. When Qin Xianglian heard such a conclusion, her first reaction was that she would throw her coffin into the air.
This is not to excuse men. These days, it is common for a man from a poor family to finally become successful and to abandon the wretchedness and find new love. In the face of dazzling temptation, physical or psychological betrayal is almost 100% certain. If you are willing to retain the title of your original wife, provide you with a life of fine clothing and fine food, and occasionally greet you, such a man who is bound by morality and responsibility can be regarded as a first-class good man among this group of Chen Shimei. Of course, the premise is that you must Learn to pretend to be deaf and mute and tolerate his pursuit of flowers or other loves, so that you can coexist peacefully.
As for those men who do all kinds of dirty things to their bad wives because they are afraid of getting divorced and having to pay large sums of alimony, they can only feel unlucky when they meet her. No matter how much they regret sacrificing everything for him, it is in vain. It is hard to imagine that a successful man whose status has completely changed would still love the yellow-faced woman who has worked hard for him and whose appearance has faded and her hands and feet are rough. Not only is there no betrayal in spirit, but the body will also be clean and tidy. The emergence of such a man would be like the reappearance of a dinosaur.
Liu Xiahui was still pregnant because the temptation was not enough. Is there really a person in this world who is strong enough to resist someone who has exceeded his or her limit? What’s more, in a patriarchal society, a man’s bottom line is far lower than that of a woman because he faces too many temptations.
Qin Xianglian is not marrying Chen Shimei, but Zhang Shimei and Li Shimei. As long as the other party succeeds, the outcome will mostly be the same. In the final analysis, Chen Qin's mistake cannot be ignored. If I had not devoted myself to housework and supported Chen Shimei's future, Chen Shimei, a useless scholar, would have wandered around the countryside. After all, he was just a villager. How could he have the capital to abandon his wife and children? Although the family lived in poverty at that time. , but you can enjoy the happiness of family relationship.
Fortunately, Ms. Wang Baochuan betrayed all her relatives and stayed in the cold kiln for eighteen years, finally leaving a so-called happy ending with the princess and her husband. The list goes on and on. The patriarchal society has always given these hypocritical auras to infatuated ladies without hesitation. If it is not unbearable, every lady hopes to share the hardships first and then the joys. How many lucky people can there be in the world who share the joys and sorrows with a man who has risen through the ranks? The ancients said early in the morning that they regretted teaching their husbands and sons-in-law to seek a title. This was true in ancient times, and it is even more true in modern society where materialism is rampant.
Nine times out of ten, a woman’s vanity is that she would rather sacrifice all her own interests and hope that the partner around her will be glorious, even if this partner’s talents are actually much inferior to her own. In the business world, the entertainment industry, the cultural world, and other workplaces where celebrities can make a name for themselves, their fortune-making history is clearly revealed in every detail. Therefore, there is a first-class smart woman who is both talented and beautiful, who is directly qualified for the position of new love and enjoys wealth and wealth with others. It not only saves you the arduous process of worrying about others, but also avoids the danger of being ungrateful and abandoned. Why not?
For example, the leading actress of a certain TV station has talent, beauty, fame, and money. She talks morally to others in a sanctimonious manner, but behind her back she unambiguously acts as a third party that makes news reporters laugh, and she abides by it. The clouds cleared and the moon shone brightly, causing the self-made rich man to abandon his first wife and infant baby. Speaking of which, the first wife was a career woman who was as intelligent as the new Chen Shimei. Although Qin Xianglian was far from comparable to her, the ending was almost the same, and could even be said to be more miserable. After all, the infant had to leave his father despite not being able to recognize his father's appearance.
Now that Chen Shimei has been overturned, should women reflect on themselves? Why pay a price to provide capital that can make a man unhappy? The more successful a man is, the greater the chance of being disappointed. This is an unbreakable truth of life. Even if one or two accidents may luckily happen to you, why take the risk and wait for him to find a new love and abandon his first wife? It is true to be calm and calm. Spending your whole life guarding a man who is not successful may not lose to spending half your life worrying about a successful man.
So it is not an exaggeration to say that it is the woman's fault that a man fails in his heart.
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