Is blind date the "only way" for leftover women?
When it comes to blind dates, everyone must be very familiar with it. Our parents’ parents’ parents are all popular in this way to find the other half of their lives. But today's blind dates are far different from the meaning of blind dates of our fathers' generations! Blind dates of our fathers' generations are inevitable in the times. However, today's blind dates have given more utilitarian things, making people feel that blind dates are just a bargaining transaction process. Since it is a bargaining transaction process, of course the people who enter the blind date must have their own characteristics in common, and a copper coin flavor permeates their bones. At the same time, it also reveals the most pathetic, pitiful, and hateful aspects of their souls!
With all kinds of blind dates in the audience, what proportion of women can really get married through blind dates? Looking up relevant information, Hot Girl shows that the hit rate of blind dates is only 20%! Looking at this data, I have to let it go Shocking! With such a low success rate, why are so many leftover women flocking to it? Since the blind date method is not suitable for you, why not seek a better way to get married? Here, the hot girl summarizes the 10 types of leftover women born in the 1980s who are most suitable for blind dates and spouse selection, but I hope it can give a scientific and effective inspiration to the leftover women born in the 1980s who are eager to get married:
The first category: the leftover women of the "three highs" who believe in their arrogance
Since they are leftover women from the "three highs", they must be elites in the workplace and the elite of the times! For women with such superior conditions, how easy is it to meet a satisfactory husband? Therefore, blind date has become the best way for them to get married! Why do you say this? We have to start with the "three highs" and the standards for Chinese men to choose a spouse. China is a big country that follows traditional thinking. Many men are still in the dominant position in society. Therefore, men are born with a sense of superiority. Their male chauvinism has not diminished with social progress. On the contrary, it is increasing! If we let If they marry a high-ranking woman back home, then he will definitely live a very depressed life, feeling that he is always looked down upon by others and suppressed by his wife. In the long run, it will inevitably cause serious marital turmoil and eventually lead to divorce. Bad consequences! Therefore, most Chinese men will not marry a strong woman as their wife!
Let’s talk about the expectations of three-high women themselves. As a social person, I believe they all hope that they can stand out and be the best! But when a woman achieves success beyond the reach of ordinary people, her heart will be full of pleasure and satisfaction! Therefore, they expect that the other half of their life is also very good. If the other half is not as good as themselves, then they will definitely hesitate! If they meet the one they love, Men, the other person may already be a husband or a father, because everyone loves good men!
So for the elite leftover women of this era, if they want to find a partner through ordinary people, it is really difficult! Instead of becoming a sad leftover girl, why not join the blind date team? As a result, there have been many blind dates in the society for leftover girls. Because today's blind date is completely a naked competition of conditions and a process of open bargaining. I believe that leftover women with high grades can find more satisfactory husbands through blind dates!
The second category: leftover women with mediocre ability and shabby appearance
There is a saying in China: A woman’s lack of talent is a virtue. If a woman is both talentless and ugly, she is doomed to be rejected by more sweet love. Although most men say they don't judge people by their appearance, deep down they still like girls with pretty faces and good figures. But it’s understandable, everyone has a love for beauty! So for a girl with a shabby appearance and mediocre abilities, it must be harder than climbing to the sky to meet Prince Charming through normal channels! She’s about to run away for three years, If you don't get married, you will be sorry for the parents who raised you, so I suggest that these leftover women join the blind date process as soon as possible. You may be able to find a matching husband in the blind date team!
The third category: competitive and competitive Strong leftover women who love vanity
I believe that many men will faint when they hear the word strong woman! Because being too strong and competitive is not a good thing. For patriarchal Chinese men, they need a strong woman even more. Gentle and virtuous, a loving companion to birds! This proves his ability to protect the weak and women. Strong female leftover women must lack many opposite-sex friends in their lives, and of course they lack same-sex friends. Because their strong nature makes them lose more of their feminine charm, their living circle is relatively small. It may be difficult to find a satisfactory husband in a small circle, because such leftover women are relatively vain and want to compete for power in everything, including choosing a spouse and getting married. They definitely set their goals higher than ordinary women to show that they are different. capable woman. This kind of positioning greatly limits the choice of spouses for strong leftover women, so it is recommended that they go on a blind date, or maybe they can find a man who likes strong women here!
Category 4: Coquettish, coquettish, and promiscuous women. Leftover women
This type of leftover women is the most hateful and pathetic! Generally speaking, they have low cultural attainment and always hope to find a rich man with their outstanding looks. But after years of searching, it may be all in vain! This is because these leftover women specialize in poaching and acting as shameful third parties. They always think that their appearance and youth can bring them a lifetime of glory and wealth, but in the end they end up with a reputation as a vixen. If a girl loses her reputation, it will be very difficult for her to find a suitable partner, so it may be more appropriate for them to find a partner through blind dates. Because when others don’t know her past, maybe her good looks can impress some men!
Finally, the hot girl advises those leftover girls who are swarming indiscriminately: If If you are really in a hurry to get married, then you should first listen to the tips from hot housewives born in the 1970s to see if you are suitable for finding a girl through blind dates. If you are not suitable, then you should correct some of your own shortcomings first, and it is more suitable to choose a spouse within your own life circle, because that way your love may be sweeter and your marriage will be happier. At least, you didn’t find your partner through blind dates! The above is just the personal opinion of hot girls. If you offend, please forgive me, the leftover women born in the 1980s!
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