Singles are no longer “aristocratic”. You can call them single aristocrats, bohemians, bourgeois, dating machines, whatever. To be honest, they were in their thirties and still wandering around alone.

They spend a lot of time hanging out in bars or participating in various parties. They are more likely to attract the attention of the opposite sex. They go on blind dates from time to time. They are free and carefree, and they occasionally curse." All good men are extinct.”

But when she returned to her small rented apartment, wearing crumpled old pajamas and sitting among a lot of messy cushions, magazines and snacks, 32-year-old Bridget Jones told herself: Life can no longer be like this Keep going! She started keeping a diary, writing down her changes, hoping to find a true lover at Christmas - this was the beginning of the acclaimed American movie "B.J.'s Diary" the year before last. At the end, Bridget and lawyer Mark, wearing three-point underwear, danced passionately on a snowy Christmas Eve. Although it was a bit cold, I believe the days ahead will be bright and springy!

"B.J.'s Single Diary" boldly declares to the world: I am completely tired of single life! I want to get married! In fact, this is also the sentiment of most 30-year-old single women, because they have passed the point where they are young enough to not care about men.

The American Golden Globe Award-winning best television series "Sex and the City", which is popular around the world, has filmed its fifth installment. Since 1998, Carrie and her three single girlfriends have been searching and attacking in the bizarre Manhattan. Some people can't stand these women speaking dirty words and playing sex games without restraint. In fact, if you read it from beginning to end, you will feel a deep sadness. "I have been living in New York for so many years and dated countless times, but I have only maintained a few stable relationships, and they were all over in the end." Men refused to marry them, and they couldn't even get a promise, which made The modern single woman is trapped in her deepest insecurities.

When Kari was carrying her luggage and preparing to go on vacation to the island with Mr. Big Mac, whom she loved deeply and had been dating for a long time, she suddenly asked: "I don't ask you to introduce me to him. Your friend and your mother, but can you give me a word of certainty?" Her lover stood still for a long time, with a look of retreat in his eyes. I believe that seeing this scene, the hearts of single women all over the world will be broken.

The recent best-selling books "Protein Girl" and "61×57", which have become popular on both sides of the Taiwan Strait, tell the same story. Behind the speculative and short-lived love games that abound in metropolises, single aristocrats relentlessly pursue an ideal relationship between the sexes. Lin Jinghui in "61×57" is a typical "high-maintenance woman": refined and rational, she has studied abroad, and has a decent and well-paid job, which is enough to allow her to wander in urban fashion as she pleases. After years of uneventful relationships between men and women, 32-year-old Jinghui met the man she was obsessed with in her life, Xu Kai. It's a pity that Xu Kai is the kind of person who is least devoted to love and has no plans to get married. The ending of the story is certainly sad. Shortly after her 33rd birthday, Jinghui and Xu Kai broke up. She is still alone on her hopeless journey to find love.

The number of single women in their thirties today has tripled compared to 1960. They have their own careers and make the same money as men; they have their own social circles and friends, and modern society has a certain understanding and tolerance for singles. In this sense, they do not have to be married. But look at what Carrie in "Sex and the City" did??? She calmly put down her luggage, watched Mr. Big Mac go away, and then said to herself with extremely strong will and optimism: " I still want to find true love!"

"Excluding the few who really like to be single, singleness is just a decent excuse for most women at present," Yuan Yue, chairman of Zero Point Investigation Company, said, "Sex can come from. Withdrawal from marriage, women's independent economic status has rapidly improved, but cultural evolution is slow." "Maybe a female master's degree is willing to accept college students, but this involves the wishes of both parties. Is she willing? Men may find it difficult to accept a woman with a high status. This cultural model is ingrained in everyone's bones." "So, You will find many women claiming that they are single aristocrats. The rise of many singles clubs is the mutual recognition of people who have the same pain."

According to the Shanghai Marriage Management Office, in January this year. From January to May, the total number of marriage registrations in Shanghai reached 33,000, of which the number during the "extraordinary period" since April still reached more than 8,000. Compared with the same period in previous years, the number of marriages has not declined, but has actually increased. Ye Sha, the host of "Together Until Dawn," believes that modern people reject marriage but not love. In fact, this is a manifestation of fear of loneliness and evasion of responsibility. People need less and less from others, and it seems irrelevant whether they have a stable life partner or not. But when disaster or emergencies strike, they find that they cannot bear it alone and need a companion to comfort and cling to each other. So they show a return to family.

According to a survey by the University of California, the mortality rate of single men is twice that of married men, and the mortality rate of single women is one and a half times that of married women. Among single men and women, the mortality rate is usually higher. They are people in their late 30s or 40s. Researchers believe that the reason for the high mortality rate among singles is that singles are a minority in the population, are under great pressure, and are an isolated group in society. For this reason, they pointed out that marriage is an important factor in maintaining good health and extending life.

“Love must become more courageous with every setback, and love must be determined and persistent. Every single person must see through it. If you want to love, don’t be afraid of pain. Find someone you love, deeply, and want to love to say goodbye to being single. "In fact, most single people long for love and marriage, and they have not given up the pursuit of true love.

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