Revealing: The love trap that has addicted countless women

We often hear women say, I love him because he is really good to me... She should love him because he is so good to her him? If the answer is yes, then for a man, as long as he is so good to a woman, who else can the woman love besides him? But is this true?

No matter how you look at this sentence, it doesn’t seem wrong: He is so good to me. When I catch a cold, he will ride his bicycle across half of the city to deliver me medicine; if I lose my mobile phone, he will Without saying a word, he bought me a new one and would rather eat pickled steamed buns every day; I called him willfully in the middle of the night, and no matter how sleepy or tired he was, he would insist on coaxing me to sleep... How could I not love such a man? he?

Should she love him just because he is so good to her? If the answer is yes, then for a man, as long as he is so good to a woman, who else can the woman love besides him? But is this true? Is the essence of love just a comparison of who is better to whom?

Apparently not.

There will always be a foreseeable day in the future: when you catch a cold, he will no longer come all the way to deliver medicine to you, but will tell you to go see a doctor yourself; he will still call you if you lose your mobile phone. He will buy you a new mobile phone without any hesitation, because the money is not important to him at this time; if you call him in the middle of the night and want him to coax you to sleep, you will find that he will no longer bother you in the middle of the night. Turn on your phone...

The only constant in this world is change. No one will be good to anyone forever, so if you think he is good to you, you should love him, and the result will be your sorrow. Pleasing her before hunting her is a trick that men will never give up and a trap that women will never escape. Because once that woman gets used to your kindness to her, she will never be able to leave you again. She has become a prey in your hands. As for whether you will abandon your prey, it all depends on your mood.

It is of no use to say so much. Countless women will still be moved by a man’s kindness towards her and commit themselves to her, and men will still get tired of having to pay so much and finally succeed. Abandon and look for the next target, so there are always so many sad women and so many heartless men in the world. Now there is a new question, if a man is so good to a woman and the woman should not love him, then who should she love? If being nice to her doesn't count as loving her, then what is love?

My friend gave a pretty good answer: Love is the mutual conquest between two people, and only through conquest can long-term love be maintained. In other words, there must be something unique about each other that makes the other person like it. Otherwise, everyone in the world is different. Why would love happen to you and him? He is good to you, another person can be better to you, and another person can be even better to you. How can you fall in love with him so easily because of such a characteristic that can be replaced at any time? How can love be so cheap?

Recommendations for more exciting articles:

Female prostitutes should understand the sexual psychology and behavior of male prostitutes

Privacy: Husband flirts with young and beautiful nanny

Infidelity in the office, encountering love and losing marriage

Oral narrative: Two passions with a "strange" female colleague

Oral narrative: White-collar women share their sexual experiences

Oral narrative: The newlywed wife turned out to be a big liar

Oral Narration: Sex after our quarrel

Revealing: the love trap that has obsessed countless women

Here is a paragraph from Milan Kunder's novel called "Life "Elsewhere", the poet hero in it had the conditions to fall in love with a beautiful woman, but he chose a not-so-pretty red-haired girl. The girl felt deeply inferior and felt that she was not worthy of him, so she asked: "I I really don’t know what you like about me, there are so many beautiful girls around.” He replied: “Your breasts are small, underdeveloped, and have large and wrinkled nipples. This will only arouse pity.” Not passionate. You have freckles on your face, your hair is red, and you are very thin. These are the reasons why I love you." The red-haired girl burst into tears. I love you, so I know every one of your shortcomings better than you do. Of course, I love your advantages even more.

It’s a pity that most women don’t understand such profound love. They are often lost in men's sweet words, lost in the vanity of eternal vows, and cannot see clearly the true face of love. Sometimes love is beautiful, and sometimes love is very realistic.

I think true mature love is: if you catch a cold, if I am by your side, I will take good care of you; if I am far away from you, I will ask you to see a doctor instead of I come to see you desperately, not because I don’t care about you, but because this is just a cold, and we all have to learn to take care of ourselves when the other person is not around;

Your mobile phone is lost, if I don’t have money , I will give you my mobile phone to use. I use my old mobile phone myself. It’s not that I am reluctant to spend money for you, but I want to make better plans for our future. If I had money, then I would not spend money. I don’t hesitate to buy you a new mobile phone. When I have no money, I care about your mood. When I have money, I also care about your mood. If you call me in the middle of the night, I will try my best to coax you to sleep no matter how tired you are. But sometimes I will tell you in advance that I can't call you because there are important things tomorrow...

I will not be nice to you regardless of everything, but you will always be the one I give the most to in my life. people. So, what kind of person will have mature love? What kind of men and women know that they should love each other when they meet, be compatible with each other when they get along, miss each other when they are apart, and rely on each other when they are together? Men and women in the human world are too complicated, and there is basically no answer to this question. But it reminds me of something I've seen before.

There is an old saying that boys are poor and girls are rich. It means that a boy cannot be given a good environment to grow up. He must endure hardships, be wronged, and experience hardships. Only in this way can he understand perseverance, learn to be strong, understand responsibilities, and become self-reliant and self-reliant when he grows up. Girls, on the other hand, no matter how poor the conditions are, you should pamper her like a princess, pamper her, and make her happy. Only in this way will she know how to respect herself and love herself when she grows up, and will be immune to the love of others, and will she understand the role of a woman. Only with pride can you discern the happiness you truly want, and will not be easily seduced by other people's kindness to you, and will not be so easily hurt by love.

If it were the other way around, with the boy being rich and the girl being poor, you can already imagine what the outcome would be.