Men usually "tears without tears" and often vent their fear, pain, pessimism and other emotions through sex. When they are in pain, sex is the only way they can feel comforted and safe.

However, although the husband relaxed physically, the psychological tension did not ease, and the wife would definitely not get more caress from her husband.

So when you find that your husband is approaching you when he is depressed, you should try to make him believe that he can tell you everything. Tell him you want to hug him and then ask him what makes him anxious so that you can feel closer together.

2. Men don’t like to be treated as children

If you always treat your husband as a child, he will treat you as a "mother". Women often only focus on the needs of others, but ignore their own needs. At first, men also like to be taken care of, but the closer a woman is to the role of mother, the harder it is for her husband to treat her sexually.

When your husband asks you where his keys are, force yourself to answer "I don't know" and let him find them. Don't pack his things, don't make suggestions about what he should wear, treat him as a capable person and show that you fully trust him. Maybe there will be some confusion in your life at the beginning, but soon he will understand everything you do and will have a new understanding of you.

3. Men value sex more

Women value love, while men value sex more. If you want to keep your husband's heart, you must maintain your lasting sexual charm. You can often tell your husband that you love him and that you are waiting for his arrival through sexy body language. Most men have sexual fantasies and always want to innovate in the way they make love. You should discuss it with him and practice it. In this way, even though you have been married for several years, it still remains novel and exciting. Remember, men always have the desire to "try new things".

4. Men hope that their sexual “talents” will be appreciated.

Wives should praise their husbands’ sexual “talents” more often, such as praising him for being powerful and strong. Most men find it important to maintain a strong image. If you think he is very capable in sex, he will feel that he is an extraordinary man and have more desire to "show off", which may give you a new sexual experience.

5. Men are completely different before and after sex

Many women complain that their husbands completely close themselves off after sex. In fact, they do not understand that men do this just to regain control of their emotions. A man believes that only during sexual intercourse can he fully express his passion. After the affair is over, he feels that he should "restore his image as a man."

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