Two months ago, a female director in our program team was very hesitant when her boyfriend proposed to her. She always felt that she was only 26 years old. In a big city like Beijing, it seemed too early to get married. Besides, the two of them have just started their careers and they don’t have a house. Don’t Chinese philosophies say that they should “establish a career first and then start a family”?

The girl was a little confused and asked me to help her out. I listened to their stories and firmly believed that she should accept the proposal. Let’s hear my reasons: The girl and her boyfriend have known each other for more than a year. The boyfriend is five years older than her. He is a lawyer with a stable job and similar conditions. The key is that this is the period of passionate love. In each other's eyes, all the advantages and disadvantages are seen in each other. I think it is very appropriate to get married during such a period of passion. And once you miss this time, you may regret it for life.

I have never lacked such examples: a girlfriend and her boyfriend have been in love for eight years. In the first year of the relationship, the boy really wanted to get married, but the girl didn't want to because she felt she was too young and immature. In the third year of the relationship, the boy's mother proposed marriage, and the girl felt that her future mother-in-law wanted to have grandchildren. Her career was on the rise, and she still wanted to get married. I didn't want to have a child so early, so I declined politely, and the marriage was postponed. Just like this, eight years have passed, and the two have gone through ups and downs together, and they seem to be more like family members. When the girl is already thirty years old and has reached the age where she really wants to have a family, and she is waiting day by day for the boy to propose again, the boy seems to be in no hurry and never mentions it. The girl felt a little embarrassed to mention it herself, so she started to remind the other party in various ways, but the boy kept pretending to be confused. No matter what his girlfriend said, he just didn't speak. Another year passed like this, and the girl couldn't bear it anymore and simply forced her to get married.

In the end, the two of them went their separate ways. The boy said: "It has been eight years, and I have become tired of being familiar with each other. I really don't want to get married. Are we going to live like this for the rest of our lives?" Such words are quite unacceptable. Responsible, but when criticizing boys, the representative of the love department also wants to analyze it with everyone. If two people got married, they might have reached the period of aesthetic fatigue in eight years, but they might also have children. In this way, with Because of the ties of children and the constraints of family members, men generally will not abandon home easily. My girlfriend is still living alone. Although she lives the free life of a single aristocrat and seems quite happy, when we occasionally chat, she also says: "If I had gotten married impulsively back then, I might not have lived like this today." Maybe the child is not young anymore..."

So, that marriage certificate is very important, especially for women.

Once during the recording of a program, the psychologist on the scene once said: "Girls, remember, dating for about a year is the most suitable for marriage. There have been relevant studies abroad, and everyone's emotional impulse The period will not exceed thirty-six months, which is three years. After three years, love will gradually transform into family love. Once you enter the family relationship period, your happiness will decrease if you get married again."

I! I told this colleague my feelings and these stories, and the girl said she would consider it.

Two months later, the female director sent me wedding candy and she chose to get married.

Every morning when I see her coming to work with a happy face, I wish her the best in my heart. Getting married requires some impulse, especially when a man wants to get married. When you fulfill his wish, you actually give yourself happiness!

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