The affair scandal of golf prodigy Tiger Woods caused an uproar. His wife vowed to divorce him, and his net worth plummeted. I don't care about Tiger Woods' personal affairs, I just want to start a discussion about "affairs." In today's society, men believe that there are no legal obligations in a relationship and only moral codes of conduct can serve as a standard of measurement. Married men believe that marriage vows are just a formality and do not bind them in any way when they want to have an affair. Of course, it is undeniable that there are also women who have this attitude.

Many women have no way of telling whether the man she is dating is married. There is no word "married" written on their faces. Many men who have affairs behind their wives' backs even make up two names for themselves. A completely different identity to avoid his "married status" being exposed. For women, it is impossible to verify whether a man is married. Why can't there be a public database that keeps files on all the men who have had affairs with their wives? At least, they can't make up their marital status over and over again.

"Cheating" can be considered a "crime" in Florida, where Tiger Woods lives, and can be sentenced to 6 months in prison or a $500 fine. If all the men who had affairs were caught, the police would be very busy.

No matter in any kind of "common sense", "infidelity" can be understood as a blasphemy against morality and an improper relationship between men and women. Why can't the government make a list of those "repeat criminals"? Should every woman who has been deceived by a married man tell everyone that "this man is married"?

I'm not saying that men don't have the right to be "philandering". After all, creatures like them have such a habit. However, if men want to be "playboys", they can get divorced, or simply stay single, so that they can be legitimate "playboys" and simply bear the moral and emotional blame without having to bear legal responsibility.

In fact, men will always find reasons to justify their cheating behavior. He would say that he discovered true love unexpectedly and could not control his feelings; he could also say that his wife always refused to applaud him and always belittled him, while a third party could worship him and give him a sense of accomplishment; He can also say that the third person makes him feel that he is still young and full of passion and vitality. In any situation, a man can find excuses for his cheating and describe himself as "poor", as if he had no choice but to have an affair.

In fact, I think we should change men’s attitudes about having affairs based on “common sense.” If "common sense" believes that cheating is a crime, not just a moral mistake, I believe many men will realize the seriousness of cheating and remind themselves that they "cannot commit a crime" when they are hot-headed. Or, all parts of the world should be like Florida and criminalize cheating, impose appropriate penalties, and believe that men will restrain themselves for it.

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