There is a new method of choosing a mate currently circulating among British women. They can determine within one minute whether the man in front of them is the Prince Charming of their dreams, and all this is done by looking at the clothes on the man’s feet. shoes to determine. In this regard, the famous body language expert Flick Everett divided men into five types based on their shoe wearing habits. Men’s five shoe styles reflect five personalities

Men who repeatedly buy fixed styles of shoes are very nostalgic

This type of man is very nostalgic. He always has a deep attachment to the people, things, and things he is used to. Even if his lover is unreasonable, willful, and childish, he will treat her with a tolerant attitude until she gradually matures and understands. He has many old friends and is very loyal to them. He will stand up for his friends and lend a helping hand when appropriate, making his old friends feel that he is a trustworthy supporter. Therefore, if you fall in love with him, you might as well listen to his troubles more and be more considerate of the details of his life. The relationship between each other should grow steadily.

A man who wears shoes frugally is very conservative

After buying a pair of shoes, he cherishes them very much. He hopes that the shoes can be worn for a longer time and can save a budget for purchasing. The shoes in his shoe cabinet are very old. In terms of personality, he is a conservative man who is restrained and unable to let go. In dealing with others, he is not tactful enough and often offends people without realizing it; in interpersonal relationships, he has a small circle of dealings; in the professional field, he will have a chance of success because of his silent efforts. Therefore, if you fall in love with him, be careful! He is a man with a "passionate heart". When we went on our first date, I had infinite reveries about you in my heart. I hope that I can become a lover with you soon, hit it off immediately, and be intimate with you. But his restrained and conservative personality suppresses his inner feelings, and he dare not express his love to you. So you might as well take the initiative and create more opportunities for him to express his feelings.

A man who wears shoes casually is informal and has high ambitions and low ambitions

This type of man doesn’t care what shoes he wears and wears them randomly. Sometimes the shoes didn't match the clothes at all. Even if the shoes were damaged and outdated, he didn't care. He can even tolerate no socks, torn socks, or wrong socks. In terms of personality, he is an informal man who often has high ambitions and low intentions. His private life is unorganized, and he likes to daydream. He believes that one day he can reach the sky in one step, and it is easy to live a life of self-deception. If you fall in love with him, you will find that his emotional world is complicated and complicated. He often cannot forget his old love and cannot refuse his new love. Love triangles and love triangles are entangled, and when all disputes explode, he will choose to "escape".

Men who like to wear orthodox black leather shoes are mostly male chauvinists

This type of men are accustomed to wearing orthodox black leather shoes and polishing them very well. They absolutely cannot bear to wear them themselves. Go out with a pair of dirty or old shoes. If this type of man is accustomed to wearing his orthodox black leather shoes even on vacation or on dates, you must be mentally prepared. He must have an out-and-out machismo tendency and value his mother's opinions very much. If you fall in love with him, don't try to influence him. He has his own set of principles for dealing with others, and he will never change them just because of you.

Men who like to wear casual shoes value taste

This type of man is a man who pays attention to leisure life and quality of life. The requirements for shoes are very high. They must not only be comfortable, but also pay more attention to the style of the shoes and the appropriate clothing. In terms of personality, he likes to take the initiative, has strong subjective consciousness, is very strict with himself, and is even more picky with the requirements of the opposite sex. In life, he is a regular planner. When dating him, you can feel that he is a very considerate and good lover, with a gentle and polite attitude, and a humorous conversation. He is also a person who knows what kind of girl he likes very well. So when dating him, even if you don't meet his ideals, he will be very kind. Don't think that he has a crush on you, he is just a gentleman.

The psychological basis for identifying a man by looking at his shoes

Shoes symbolize marriage and career

Deng Yuntian, a psychological counselor at Chongqing Mingliang Psychological Counseling Center, said that shoes and The habit of wearing shoes can express a man's character, and its symbolic meaning not only involves the shoes themselves, but also involves the act of buying shoes. For example, from a behavioral perspective, people who regularly buy the same style of shoes tend to have a nostalgic and stable personality. As for shoes, it symbolizes marriage more for men, especially the stability of marriage. There is an old saying, "Marriage is like a pair of shoes, you don't know until you wear them to find out whether they are suitable for you", which vividly illustrates this point.

In addition, Deng Yuntian also pointed out that sometimes because shoes are worn on the feet and used for walking, they can represent continuous progress and symbolize a man's career. "A person who came for psychotherapy once said that he dreamed that his heels were high and low. Later, after analysis, he found that there was a problem with his career. Of course, this varies from person to person, because individual experiences are different. The answer It’s also different.”

You can't just "judge people by their shoes"

Sun Yuxiao, a psychologist at the Beijing Psychological Counseling Center, said that wearing shoes can express a person's living conditions, identity and character. Because the styles of clothing are not as diverse as those of women, the belts, watches, shoes and other things that are easily overlooked will become the highlights of others' attention.

Sun Yuxiao said that shoes still account for a certain proportion of factors that play a role in expressing a person's life, mental outlook and personality. Of course, everyone's specific situation is different, and shoes must not be rigidly linked to people's personalities. Specific issues must be analyzed in detail.

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