Because many couples have been married for many years, their self-awareness begins to expand, and they gradually do not take the other person to heart. They forcefully intervene whenever they have an impulse, or they are not interested and let the other person frequently flirt with each other, just ignore it, or even show disgust. Attitude. If things go on like this, the relationship between husband and wife will become increasingly weak, eventually leading to bad results. Conflict triggers 1. Overpowering Xiaoyue has developed the temper of a young lady since she was a child, and Jianrong has to respect her opinions in everything. Especially after giving birth to the child, she was obviously not interested in sex life and would not allow her husband to "touch" her at all. Jianrong had to suppress his passionate desires and gradually became accustomed to it. Once, the couple went to Lijiang for a trip. In the hotel, Xiaoyue threw herself into Jianrong's arms and started acting coquettishly. Although Jianrong had not had sex for more than half a year, he could not arouse the desire for sexual intercourse at this time. Xiaoyue was very puzzled by her husband's behavior and wondered if her husband was having an affair. Otherwise, how could he not appreciate his wife's surrender? [Analysis] Xiaoyue extends her bad character to the sexual life of the couple and acts as the master of the sexual life. This is actually to ask her husband to admit that she enjoys the "ruling" privilege of sexual dominance in the sexual life. The husband's request for sex can only be obtained based on his wife's face and emotions. Is this kind of sexual relationship normal? In sexual life, no matter which party has this problem of sexual dominance, the partner will become a passive body, unable to give full play to his initiative and creativity, and unable to express rich emotions. Moreover, the dominant party often makes sexual demands and chooses sexual positions. Once the sexual desire is satisfied during sexual intercourse, it ends in a hurry without asking for the other party's opinion, causing the other party to gradually become indifferent to sexual life. Over time, sexual conflicts will occur. Husband and wife should respect each other's opinions in sex life, because sex life is a matter between two people, and each husband and wife are both subjects and objects. This means that they have the right to enjoy sex life and the obligation to bring happiness to each other. Sexual rights and obligations should be harmonious and unified. Besides, in terms of the quality of sexual life, if the husband and wife do not cooperate closely and just "burn the stick to heat one end", it will be difficult to obtain the ideal sexual effect. Conflict triggers 2. Over-accommodation. Because Shiming is traveling in the business world, Junko takes good care of him in all aspects in order to nip problems in the bud. Especially in her sexual life, she doesn’t want to lose her because she can’t meet her husband’s requirements. It became an excuse for him to "smuggle" his feelings. So sometimes, even though Junko couldn't stand Shiming's too frequent requests for sex, she could only endure it. One time, Shiming came back from socializing outside and wanted to have sex with her while drunk. After three or four rounds of tossing, Junko didn't have much interest or desire in the first place, and her body became increasingly dry. An unspeakable feeling of discomfort and slight pain ignited like a spark. However, Shiming didn't notice the changes in Junko's body, physiology and expression at all. When he cheered up again and prepared to continue his efforts, Junko couldn't bear his almost "destructive" sex life and finally rejected him. "violation" again. Shiming was so angry that he got out of bed and walked to the living room to watch TV. From then on, the couple fell into a cold war for a long time. [Analysis] In real life, even couples who have a tacit understanding of their sexual life have different levels of sexual desire differences. When one party has a strong sexual desire and wants to have sex frequently, while the other party wants to have sex once a week or more, how to scientifically adjust the difference in sexual desire between the couple needs to be explored and mastered by the couple in their long-term sexual life practice. , summary, adjustment. However, there are some people, like Junko, who, in order to satisfy the sexual requirements of the person with strong sexual desire, do not adopt scientific methods to adjust, but go against their physical and psychological wishes and use personal humiliation in exchange for the other person's sexual happiness. Over time, when your body really cannot adapt, accommodation becomes unsustainable and deception no longer exists, and you will develop from dissatisfaction, sullenness, and resentment to resistance. Conflict triggers 3. Over-persistence Xianxia was born in a scholarly family. She received orthodox education from an early age and is well-educated, reserved and elegant. When making love with Yun Hao, there is rarely any romantic, crazy or unrestrained expression. Once, the couple cuddled up and watched TV. On the screen, they saw a couple topless under the pink light, showing warmth and charm. Seeing this, Yunhao also wanted to be romantic, so he hugged his wife passionately into the bedroom. Xianxia understood her husband's thoughts, so she reached out to turn off the light and untie her belt. At this time, Yunhao reached out and turned on the soft yellow wall lamp. When Xianxia saw her husband looking at her body, she turned off the light again with a shy look on her face. Yunhao then turned on the light again. Xianxia was unhappy and put out the light again with a slight sullen expression. Unfortunately, the two parties turned the lights off and on again and again, eventually ruining a romantic affair. [Analysis] Xianxia is influenced by orthodox ideas and believes that couples can only have sex in the dark. However, in order to increase the visual effect, Yunhao imitated the lovemaking methods on TV, eager to taste the taste of romantic lovemaking. The two parties had differences of opinion in the atmosphere of lovemaking, which "exploded" the sexual conflict between the couple. Ordinarily, the sexual conflict between Xianxia and Yunhao can be avoided. If they usually pay attention to strengthening the communication and discussion of sexual awareness, "transform" each other in the subtle daily life, and reach a new consensus, maybe Xianxia can also realize Yunhao's "new trick" of making love. Changes in ideas and concepts do not happen overnight, so when every couple has a disagreement about sex, they need to be patient to persuade and influence. They must not impose their opinions on each other, otherwise there will be a situation like Xianxia and Yunhao. Such sexual conflict.

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