Hong Kong female writer Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Hugging is my favorite sport. When we look for love in the vast world, we are just looking for an endless hug... Before this body withered, there was someone with a smile. Pick me up and prove that I have enjoyed the love in the world.” Indeed, for many women, hugging is the most perfect expression of love. But men often don't understand, what's the benefit of two people being tired of being together every day? On June 2, the American men's online magazine "Ask Him" ​​published an article on this difference to help men resolve their doubts. Scientific research has found that hugging can stimulate the brain to release oxytocin, also known as the "cuddle hormone". It is a "partner glue" that can make each other feel close and consolidate the relationship between the sexes. From an evolutionary perspective, physical intimacy is a good way to strengthen emotional bonds, and women also hope to use this to make men stay loyal to them. A good hug can make people feel comfortable and happy, which is another reason why women love hugging. Men's rejection of hugs mainly lies in their subjective consciousness of "shyness, embarrassment and independence". They feel that there are many ways to express feelings and body language is just a last resort or a means to arouse sexual desire. But what men overlook is that hugging can also release oxytocin in their brains, which helps relieve stress and adjust their mood. Pan Suiming, director of the Institute of Sexuality at the School of Sociology, Renmin University of China, said that the series of reports they completed on "Chinese People's Sex Life" also pointed out that in daily life other than sexual life, if both parties can hold hands, touch, and hug frequently, , who has the most sex life and a satisfaction score of 72 points. The less intimacy there is, the less frequent sex is. If you "love each other at a distance" and "respect each other as guests" in your daily life, your sexual life satisfaction will suddenly drop by 27 points. The Ask Him website therefore suggests that couples should cuddle at least once a day and not just think of it as foreplay or afterplay. When hugging, a man can gently stroke his wife's hair, kiss her forehead, gently touch her arms and back, and interlock their fingers to make each other feel intimate.

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