When you are just about to have sex with a new boyfriend, can you directly ask, "Are you HIV negative or positive?"

Morality, health...women are subject to more invisible social gaze.

You may not want to be found carrying condoms with you, and you may be too embarrassed to buy condoms, but these are responsible actions for your body.

In the early stages of a sexual relationship, if you are the first to suggest using a condom, or if you take out a condom, the other person may wonder whether you "do this often" and think you are more "professional". However, when establishing a sexual relationship, you have to pay attention to your own life and health: Will he give you AIDS or herpes? If you don't care about yourself, who cares? Who cares more about your future than you?

It’s really wrong to use it, and it’s wrong not to use it.

Taking birth control pills is an effective method of contraception. However, if this is your only form of birth control, you may still be at risk for some unexpected risks, such as sexually transmitted diseases.

It is recommended that you use condoms. While it is a contraceptive, it can also effectively resist the invasion of some sexually transmitted diseases.

Currently, the number of women infected with HIV is rising sharply. For example, in 1994, 51,235 women in the United States were infected with HIV. Experts believe that condoms are the only physical barrier to protect men and women from the threat of HIV during sexual intercourse.

Of course, it is a bit "incongruous" to interrupt foreplay when passion is surging to get a rubber product in a plastic package. You will say that using condoms is very troublesome for the man. Not cooperative either. But have you ever thought that being infected with HIV is more troublesome?

In sexual relationships, the expectations of men and women do not exactly overlap. These expectations are actually shaped by society and culture. The behavior of using condoms also reflects different behavior patterns. For example, when you propose to use condoms, he may object that it is not comfortable enough, or sometimes you are afraid of losing him. No matter what interests are involved, you will accommodate him.

Women view "sex" mainly from the perspective of emotion and relationship; while men basically view it from the perspective of physicality, focusing on instant gratification, and are willing to take risks and attack. Don't want to be influenced by others. This is the difference between the sexes.

In fact, the best way to avoid AIDS is to use condoms and reduce the number of sexual partners.

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