Incorrect: If a girl dresses sexy, it means she wants to have sex with a boy.

Fact: If you notice a girl dressing up to be sexy, the message she is sending you is multifaceted. She may be telling you that she wants you to find her sexy or compliment her body. However, she might just want you to appreciate her fashionable eye.

When a woman buys sexy clothing like miniskirts, low-cut shirts, etc., she is simply following the trend. Or, she may want a man to compliment her taste, not as a sign that she wants to have sex with a man. Of course, people's ideas about sexy are also diverse. Some men may think that revealing more is sexier, and some men may think that showing less is sexier because he can have more room for imagination. Perhaps, some men find a certain color or material the most evocative, and think that the woman dressed in this way is giving him sexual hints. In fact, the woman is dressed just to express some of her own personality traits!

In short, a girl dressing up sexy does have various meanings, but it does not mean that she is willing to have sex with others. Like a well-dressed man driving a fancy car, no one would be foolish enough to think that he means he wants to be robbed or that he wants his car stolen. And a man who shows off his wealth is definitely not indicating that he wants someone to force him to give up his money. As for a woman showing her charm, it does not mean that she wants someone to force her to have sex.

Error: Boys have such strong sexual desires that they cannot control themselves, so girls should not seduce boys.

Fact: Men have just as strong sexual desires as women, and men are just as capable of self-control as women. If someone says, "It's my fault that this store shouldn't let me in, they should know that whenever I see a record like this, I have to buy it." Does that make sense? Likewise, being with an attractive girl may be a temptation for a boy, but if he has grown up enough to be sexually attracted to her, he should also be grown up enough to take responsibility for his actions.

In fact, it is easy to understand that men have the ability to control themselves. For example, a boy's girlfriend comes to his room and they both get ready to have sex. At this time, someone else came in. Perhaps this person was the boy's father and mother, or a teacher or even the principal of the school. Then, he will definitely interrupt his desires because he will not be willing to carry out extremely private activities in front of a third party. It can be seen that when a woman refuses a man's sexual request, he must have the ability to control himself physiologically, and cannot easily ignore the woman's wishes with the excuse of "physical needs, uncontrollable".