1. If he is passive and reserved.

"Maybe he doesn't want to ruin our friendship" "Maybe he is shy" "Maybe he has low self-esteem" "Maybe he just doesn't know how to contact me"...

In the entire process of human history Any man will not care about sacrificing "friendship" in order to get close to you. He cannot be too scared to chase you because of shyness and inferiority. The only thing he is "fearful" is that he is so "indifferent" to you. He won’t not know how to contact you via mobile phone, email, IM, SNS, twitter... He can use his eyes, mouth, brain, network, and Google to find you—unless he doesn’t want to find you.

Some people may advocate that this is no longer the Stone Age, and girls should take the initiative to pursue the person they like, but I believe that the person who really likes you will not let you go to all the trouble to find him-because he Will be sent to your door.

2. If he fails to do what he promised you, even if it is just a phone call.

"He was really busy so he forgot" "At least he really apologized to me"... He is very busy. He is about to take office as the President of the United States. He has hundreds of millions of business deals to discuss in an hour. He is so busy. I'm going crazy. I can't spare any time to talk to you on the phone in one day. I'm so busy. There are mobile phones, speed dials, and even voice dialing. Sometimes the phone is dialed from your trouser pocket without even thinking about making a call. Why don't you have time to make a call?

If he really likes you, he won't forget. If he forgets, it means he doesn't care about your disappointment. "Busy" is a weapon of mass destruction in love, and is synonymous with "asshole". An asshole is the person who uses busyness to deal with you. (Sound-minded) men know what "priority" means. As for apologizing?

Oh, no time for his nonsense.

3. If he is ambiguous.

"He has been hurt before" "His life is very chaotic now" "He just got divorced and he wants to take it slow" "He is used to freedom"... These are all myths used to deal with men If he doesn’t like a girl,

if he likes you, he won’t be ambiguous and will declare his ownership of you to the world. He doesn’t want to see your friends and family because he is with you. Instead of dating your mother, he doesn't want to bring you into his circle because it's just a matter between two people. If he uses the above excuses to explain the ambiguity between you, then please automatically translate it to "I I just want to kill time with you” “I don’t like you that much”.

4. If he doesn’t want to get too close to you.

"I am a man. If I like you, I will kiss you." Although I feel embarrassed and cold, it is true when I think about it. If I like you, I should like you both inside and outside. , do you want someone who likes you to say to you "I love you very much, let me be your soul friend"... I guess Plato would not say that.

5. If he betrays you.

"He drank too much" "It was just an accident that happened occasionally" "He was careless"... There is no excuse for betrayal. Betrayal doesn't happen "accidentally". It's impossible for him to say "Oh, I accidentally fell and fell on someone else's bed." He knows it will break the rules in love but still implements them. , you should just dump him. The worst thing is that someone may doubt your charm.

6. If he comes to you drunk.

If he is unwilling to change for you, then you should leave, because long-term life requires sobriety.

7. If the time is right but he still doesn’t want to get married.

"Perhaps I am not too open-minded" "He was shadowed by his childhood family" "He is not ready yet"... Many men, women, psychologists, sociologists, anthropologists, feminists ists... can give endless lectures criticizing the institution of marriage, telling you that marriage is a backward institution and an ancient financial contract, but I'm sorry, but first you have to understand that "don't want to get married" may just mean "don't want to get married" "Marry you", those who say "don't want to get married" will eventually get married, just not with you.

8. If he keeps breaking up with you and then comes to reconcile with you.

First of all, please maintain your grace and don't call and text him again. If you break up, it's a breakup.

Don’t think that as long as he comes back to you, you can continue to chat with him, meet him, watch movies, cook for him, buy gifts, carve CDs, feed fish, greet his parents and friends, Secretly use his voicemail to check his call records...

People who really like you will not break up with you, and will not toss you over and over again, so please wake up, unless you want to become a yo-yo. Miss Champion.

9. If he suddenly and inexplicably disappears.

Don’t spend a lot of energy solving the “mystery of the missing man”. No matter what evidence and excuses you come up with to comfort yourself, the only fact is that he no longer wants to be with you. Together, and I don’t have the guts to tell you clearly. Believe me, there is no secret - he is not good enough for you.

10. If he is married.

Nothing to say, at least until he gets divorced. If you still can't figure it out, you should probably call the police - someone lost their brain.

Sometimes we would rather believe that a man is too scared, too nervous, too inferior, too holy, too in love with his ex-girlfriend, too sensitive, too Oedipal, too busy, with too many childhood shadows, too much family pressure, Too tired, too crazy, too tanned, too suicidal... But unwilling to see the simple fact clearly, yes, he was not too busy, not injured, not suffering from childhood shadow, not encountering earthquakes and floods, It’s not that he wants to be president, it’s not that he suffered a concussion and suffered temporary amnesia, it’s not that his cell phone fell into a hot pot, it’s not that he has amnesia, he just doesn’t like you that much.

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