Many people feel that the lubrication is sufficient during the first night, but it is difficult to enter. It hurts when entering, making it very painful. I think it's probably because the other person's size is larger. Facts have proven that first night pain is not necessarily caused by a boy’s size being too big, but it may also be caused by a girl’s size being too small. Of course, there are also many girls whose sizes are not particularly tight, and there are various situations. Generally speaking, the vaginal entrance of inexperienced girls is likely to be narrow, and both parties are nervous and anxious during sex, so sexual intercourse is likely to fail. Sometimes the pain for the first time is not only due to the membrane, but also muscle tightness caused by the narrow entrance and tension accounts for a large proportion!

So today I will give you a habitual method to widen the vaginal entrance with your fingers. There are several points to pay attention to with this method. First, you need to have enough foreplay to make the female vagina moist enough before you can try this method. Second, pay attention to finger hygiene and clean your fingers before using them. Boys’ nails must be neatly trimmed and well-moved. Be gentle; third, remember that the purpose of this method is not to obtain pleasure, but to get used to the size, so never enter more than two knuckles, and do not enter too deep; fourth, take it step by step and enter slowly. For the vaginal opening, use one finger on the first day. Once you get used to it, use two fingers. On the second day, start with one finger and slowly increase it to three. During this process, the man should keep touching the woman to induce sexual desire. In addition, be careful to be gentle when inserting your fingers, and ask the woman how she feels. Use this method until the woman can accommodate the fingertips of three fingers (note that the three fingers are close together in the shape of a letter, not three fingers side by side) and it is not very painful.

It is recommended that men and women who have made up their minds and planned their first night first resist the urge and relax with their fingers. This solves four key issues:

1. Women suffer severe pain due to the tight entrance, while men's large size or rough movements may even cause tearing.

2. Women’s muscle tension caused by foreign objects entering and shyness.

3. Virgins have the opportunity to get familiar with girls’ bodies in advance.

3. When a man enters, he ejaculates instantly because the inside is too tight. I believe no man would want this to happen!

The last point to emphasize is not to go too deep with your hands, otherwise the roots of your fingers will become thicker and the hymen will be broken directly with your hands. Generally, it is enough to insert about a knuckle into the fingertip and widen the lower entrance to avoid pain. Finally, I wish all lovers sexual happiness and harmony.