How to please your woman?

If you want to please your woman, you must first know what they are thinking. Men should be reminded that inappropriate sexual demands will make women disgusted and subconsciously resist sexual intercourse. Women are emotional animals with relatively conservative sexual concepts. Only with a suitable "space" can she have a better sexual life with men.

DO

1. Praise for the body. No matter how beautiful a woman’s body is, there will always be a sense of shame and inferiority in her subconscious about body exposure.

Women tend to focus on physical defects, such as thighs that are not slender enough or breasts that are not full enough, which affects the generation of sexual pleasure. But if the man can appreciate his lover's body and give encouragement and praise, the woman will be able to relax more easily and give herself to her lover with complete trust. Expert opinion: When a woman exposes her most private parts to her partner, even if she is not perfect, she will expect praise from him, which will help increase her confidence and sense of participation.

2. Atmosphere A woman is a perceptual animal. During the process of love, her vision, smell, hearing, and touch are all open and very sensitive. Any romantic feelings brought to her senses will become her What you care about. For example, low-pitched music, romantic lights, and alluring perfume, and touching love words are a surefire way to create an atmosphere. The lingering love words will make her become tender in an instant. Expert opinion: A high-quality sex life does not start in bed, but in the time spent together before going to bed. For example, a romantic dinner, an anniversary surprise, a special gift.

3. Pay attention to her feelings. Most men hope that they are masters of love, but women may not like some sexual skills. Love is an interactive process. Even if a couple has a tacit understanding, there are also misunderstandings in communication. The only way is to pay attention to her feelings and maintain communication at all times. Observe her reaction, or ask her "Do you like this?" Your considerate behavior will make her feel sweeter, and will also make your love more harmonious. Expert opinion: The sensitive areas of love vary from person to person, and everyone likes to caress in different ways, so it is important to maintain attention and communication.

4. Integrate with her body and mind. Few women will have sex just for desire. In this process, what they want to obtain is the dual satisfaction of body and spirit. Therefore, a woman hopes that her lover will have more emotional communication with her beforehand, such as listening to her troubles, soothing her uneasiness, and paying attention to her needs. Only on the basis of good spiritual communication can a perfect love be truly completed. Expert opinion: Women regard sexual life as a process of integrating body and mind. Therefore, after a quarrel, men often hope to use sex to reconcile, but women cannot have sex in this mood.

DO NOT

1. Perfunctory foreplay. Women often regard gentle and considerate foreplay as a manifestation of love. Delicate and considerate caressing is not only for her body The appreciation is also true. Although many people understand this truth, there are still men who will go straight to the topic alone, which will only make women feel disgusted, let alone perfect love. Expert opinion: A woman’s physiological characteristics determine that she needs to be excited for a longer period of time. The man's caressing behavior before the start of sex, including kissing, hugging, touching, and even massage, can help the woman become excited.

2. Not being hygienic or wearing a condom may be due to laziness or because they like to have impromptu sex. Many men refuse to take a shower before sex. What makes women even more troublesome is that some men even refuse to wear condoms because they don't like to be "in touch with others". However, unsafe love brings all kinds of troubles to women, including gynecological diseases, miscarriage, etc. Therefore, the most intolerable thing for women is those men who oppose her on bathing and condom issues. Expert opinion: Based on women’s physiological characteristics, women are more susceptible to reproductive tract infectious diseases. This is also the reason why women are more demanding to be clean.

3. Falling asleep after having sex. If you fall asleep because you are exhausted after having sex, no woman will think this way: ‘He just uses me as a tool to vent his sexual desires, and he doesn’t love me at all. ’ Dr. Judy, a well-known American sex therapist, also pointed out that during sex, the pituitary gland of the brain secretes aphrodisiac, which causes people to have warmth and a desire to hug. Women are more likely to produce this hormone than men.

So, after making love, women will be more eager to hug and caress. Expert opinion: Women's sexual excitement comes more slowly than men's, and also subsides slowly after orgasm. The man can continue to provide some stimulation to help her subside slowly.

4. Inappropriate sexual demands. Regardless of whether she is exhausted or uncomfortable, a man who blindly makes sexual demands will only make a woman feel disgusted and feel that you don't care about her at all. And only care about your own desires. Having sex is inherently a consensual thing, but once it is forced, it will suddenly feel boring. Expert opinion: Men are reminded that inappropriate sexual demands will make women disgusted and subconsciously resist sexual life.