A man's BMW, beautiful car, villa flowers, warm words and sadness can all make a woman fall in love with him, and then fall into his emotional trap. To be a happy and independent woman, you must know the true face of a man and deal with his temptations with reason and wisdom...

Temptation a: omnipotent intelligence and ability

His charm and uniqueness really make you fall in love with him, and he pays special attention and praise to you. He will always pay attention to your needs. When you are troubled by your mother's illness, he will quietly find the best doctor.

He will carefully provide you with all conveniences in study, work and life. Unconsciously you will form a dependence on him, for example: you hint to him that he really wants to get a certain position, that you have always wanted to accomplish something, etc. As your dreams come true, you already owe him too many favors, and the rest is the question of how you should "repay".

Tips for coping:

1. For his concern, ask yourself "Why?" If you can't find more reasonable explanations, then it is very likely that he "likes" you. Understand what he is like, and he may be the man you need.

2. If he knows you are in love, but still cares about you and hints that he wants to maintain a special relationship with you, then you need to confess your feelings and loyalty to your husband or boyfriend in front of him intentionally or unintentionally. And use ability rather than love to repay the benefits he has given you.

3. If he makes sexual demands on you and it brings trouble to your relationship, politely refuse him and try to get out. Don't accept favors from him again in the future.

Temptation b: Handsome and extraordinary appearance

A man's handsomeness, elegant manners, and extraordinary conversation will always give a woman a good impression. Especially when your life is as routine as a still water, his uniqueness will undoubtedly bring you indescribable pleasure. Passionate and energetic, you really think you have met Prince Charming. Faced with his affection and affectionate little gifts, you can't help but feel dizzy, knowing that he is not affectionate and unable to extricate yourself.

Tips for coping:

Be careful you meet not only a playboy, but also a master of love. When you are really immersed in the dream of love, he will run away as fast as he says he loves you. You might as well accept his flowers occasionally and attend friends' gatherings together, but you can't accept his expensive gifts, let alone his sexual demands. Remember, when reason cannot overcome temptation, please leave him quickly!

Temptation c: Sad and profound eyes

Sometimes, his sadness and frustration may confuse you more than his success and glory. In life, women often use their maternal instinct to understand and accept men's weaknesses. This is Nicholas in "The Love of Angels". That's why Cage's melancholy eyes have attracted many female movie fans. Just as a crybaby attracts more attention, men sometimes use their scheming skills to pretend to be melancholic angels.

He will say: "Honey, I really don't know what the meaning of my life is without you." This is enough to make you give without regrets. This kind of man often makes you deeply hurt and has nowhere to tell.

Tips for coping:

1. If he is always depressed and you have to constantly support him, please leave him; if he does not really care about you and only relies on your feelings, please leave him!

2. If you really love him, then test whether he is responsible and accept his feelings when the answer satisfies you.

Temptation d: A confidant of the opposite sex who has similar interests

Don't think that you can always balance the gender balance beam. The most difficult thing in the world to grasp is the friendship of opposite sex friends. If you want to develop it into the fourth emotion, it is more than friendship and more than love. Anything less will always end up putting you in a dilemma. Usually, if friends of the opposite sex talk to each other about everything and have a feeling of dependence on each other, you should seriously consider whether they are pretending to be friends and pursuing them in reality? For him, this kind of relationship can be advanced or retreated, attacked or defended. If you can't bear your temper, you may fall into his trap.

Tips for coping:

For many men, common interests and hobbies are not enough to make them devote all their efforts to helping you. If you feel that it is inappropriate for each other to develop further, you should deliberately downplay your friendship and let him understand that you have treated him as an outsider. Otherwise, this kind of friendship will one day affect your feelings and make you unable to extricate yourself.

In life, women always encounter regrets similar to the above, which start with a bang and end miserably... While we are sympathetic and indignant, have we ever thought about whether the "bad deeds" of these people were originally caused by them? Are they really so well hidden when they are in love, or do we lack proper rationality and turn a blind eye to their shortcomings and reap the consequences? It is easy to look at shortcomings from the perspective of shortcomings, but in fact, people in love will always present the most perfect side of themselves to each other. Even though good men have many advantages, their shortcomings will not be like those in the shopping mall. The "buy one, get one free" products are also clearly tied together. Now I will teach you 12 tips to help you find out the "fox tail" behind his perfection and see clearly whether he is the man you really want. Men’s Views on Love Today

10 types of men you should never want

Romantic encounters change men and women

First, a man full of professionalism is basically a man who has no time to go shopping with women. At that time, Chen Jingrun was a man who took his career as his happiness. However, according to the moral standards at that time, not having time to accompany his wife, or even having a wife, were all considered a man's merits. But now, the more extraordinary a woman is, the less patient she is to fall in love with a man who doesn't come home.

Second, a man who only treats you well and will get furious with others if they are slightly "offensive" to you is basically a selfish and ruthless person. What he actually protects is his own interests. When his love for you is not so strong, you will still be treated like "others".

Third, a confident and decisive man is basically a proud and willful man. Such men, just like they are never indecisive, let alone sticky, do it when it's time, and break it off when it's time. They always believe that they are synonymous with right, especially for their women. .

Fifth, a man with considerable social reputation is basically a man who values ​​reputation more than his wife. If he had to choose between social fame and his wife, they would not choose his wife, but this does not prevent them from needing a woman as their wife.

Sixth, a man who "comes out of the mire but remains unstained" among his friends is definitely a hypocritical man who is good at hiding. There is absolutely nothing wrong with saying that if you look at a person, look at his friends. If the friends around him are terrible, but he continues to hang out with them while flaunting his innocence, then he must be worse than those friends. people.

Seventh, a charming and sexy man is basically a man who is charming and sexy to all women. Don’t be naive to imagine that a love seed is limited to sprouting in a small flower pot. A man who doesn't associate with any beautiful, lovely women is basically a man who is dismissed by any beautiful, lovely women.

Eighth, a man who is frugal at home is basically a stingy man in society. Such a man has no hobbies.

Ninth, a man who can't live without you, and even wants to die for you, must be a man who can let you die. Don't be moved by such vows and actions, he is just too possessive and immature.

Tenth, a man who lives a frugal life is basically a man who is unkempt on any occasion. And being unkempt is just an excuse for being sloppy.

11. A man who stays with you at home every night is basically a man without friends. At this time, what a man will get is not a woman's choice, but a woman's scolding. Men's leisure is precious only when they have no leisure.

12. A man who is not an artist but is passionate about art every day is basically a man who is not down-to-earth and has no real career. Taking photos, listening to music, watching movies, reading literary works, drinking coffee, singing, dancing, painting, and playing the piano are indeed very romantic, but once it happens every day in the family, it is not the beginning of a woman's happiness.