Part of loving a woman is feeling sexually attracted to her. How we handle this sexual attraction varies. Through sex we can express love, friendship, desire, nurturing, need, a sense of adventure, pleasure in our bodies, and more. We kissed and hugged each other. Sometimes the affectionate caressing lasts for several hours, and sometimes there is a "blitzkrieg". As lovers, we can stimulate each other's nipples and clitoris, or explore each other's vagina with fingers and tongues, or stimulate our own bodies. We can enjoy orgasms or not; we can use sexual pictures or movies; we can share sexual fantasies; we can engage in sexual games; we can laugh during sex; of course, we can also have no sexual contact and just embrace each other and sleep sweetly. It can be said that there are no certain rules for our sexual lifestyle, and there is no "right" or "wrong" principle.

"Common descriptions of love in books, magazines, movies and TV shows are always in a heterosexual model, and gender roles are rigid and always the same. For homosexuals, even the definition of 'having a sexual life' is not clear yet. Definition. I always feel that making love with my lover is a process of teaching and learning together, and I just like this kind of sex. ”

"Sex with men feels okay. But when I have sex with my female companion Paula, the intensity of sexual excitement always makes me dizzy. I really want to have sex non-stop and be immersed in the joy of sex forever. I want to go Touching her, I also longed to be touched. I like quiet sexual experiences, and sometimes I want to penetrate her and feel her twist. I always doubted it before, and felt that it was more than that. A little, but Paula couldn't figure out how to find that shock before."